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Bad Guy Raymond Goushaw of Herpetological Breeding Research

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I hate to be posting this, but I've given Ray over two years, and he still hasn't righted the situation....in fact, he hasn't even responded since June of LAST year.

I'll try to keep this as simple as possible....

Around December 2007/January 2008, I had set up a deal with Ray. I was going to buy an Argentine Black and White tegu from him. We had arranged an initial payment to secure my spot in the deal, and I was to send him the remainder asap. Both payments were sent, and confirmed received.
I don't remember which was sent first, but 120 was sent through paypal, and the remainder was payed through a check/money order.

Here's a screenshot of my paypal record
http://i37.tinypic.com/v7qp0o.jpg

The animal was injured before he was able to ship it to me, and he offered to either send me something else, or give me a refund.
I had considered taking an alternative reptile, but it was something that he said he'd have to get back to me on. Eventually, I decided on just taking the refund, as the whole process was taking too long, as in, months. At this point, most of the communication was being done via phonecalls to the number he had provided me.

I don't know whether or not it would be appropriate to post it here. If so, let me know. I think it's probably the same number that he has posted on his website. The last time I checked, it was still active, but I think that the mailbox is full. Before it was full, I'd left numerous messages here and there.

Alright, now for the exchanges that followed:

At one point, he told me that he suffered property damage during one of the hurricanes in florida, and was in the process of getting things figured out. I felt badly, and told him not to worry, that I'd contact him in a few weeks.
Eventually, he told me that he had gotten in a court battle with a reptile store chain, and was trying to get money that they owed him.

To prevent further babbling, this is almost 2 years later, and I still don't have my money OR a reptile of equivalent value, for that matter.

I've sent him numerous messages telling him that if I didn't receive my refund, that I'd have to post a negative threat on the BOI.

Here are a few messages I've copy/pasted from my email:
Oh, please keep in mind.....all of this started when I was only 16, including the first of the emails.

From: Brooks Buncher (************)
Sent: Fri 5/30/08 12:22 PM
To: Ray Goushaw ([email protected])

Hey Ray, it's Brooks. How are things?

I just wanted to check in with you; I am supposed to check in with you once every 2-3 weeks as designated by my mother, but I haven't been doing so, as I know you are having a tough time with the court case.
I guess we could consider this a check-up.
I was wondering if you think you will be able to paypal me the 250 any time soon?
I found a great deal on a 6x2 wooden enclosure built specifically with tegus in mind.
One of my friends on Bobby's reptile forum offered the complete set-up to me for $100 (CONSIDERABLY less than his craigslist listing, and even more so than what he originally paid for it.) I was looking in to selling my 5x2 glass custom, as I keep on knocking it when my tourettes syndrome acts up.

Sorry, I began to rant again.....anyway, the point of this mesage, as I previously stated, was to ask whe you think you will be able to paypal me the refund.


I hope to hear back from you soon,
----Brooks Buncher

Now, I don't know when exactly the following event occurred, but it was after a few months of Ray not responding:

I'm currently a staff member of a tegu-oriented website, run by Bobby Hill of Varnyard Herps, altough I've been pretty inactive on the site as of late. I wasn't staff back at the time that all this was going on, though.
I, after waiting a long while with no refund from Raymond, I decided to go ahead and purchase a yearling tegu from a user of Bobby Hill's website, who had bought it from Bobby as a hatchling the previous year.
Eventually, I spoke to Bobby about my situation with Raymond, and he left a message on Ray's voicemail, as Ray hadn't responded to my calls or messages.
After a few days, Ray contacted me and told me that he'd been having problems, and would try to get me the money when he could, but that he didn't have it at the moment.
It apparently had gone towards a deal with someone else as soon as he received it.

Needless to say, he never sent the money.

The following are a few more emails exchanged between Ray and myself:

From: [email protected]
Date: Sun, 1 Jun 2008 22:59:19 +0000
To: ************
Subject: Re: Just checking in

Hey didn't forget about you. Still trying to collect all the open accounts I have. Things are real tight. I will get your refund out as soon as I can.

From: Brooks Buncher (************)
Sent: Mon 6/02/08 2:43 AM
To: [email protected] ([email protected])

Thanks for the response. I wish you the best of luck in your conflict with the pet store. Is it just one pet store that owes you a bunch of money, or are there a bunch of people that owe you smaller amounts of money (but it is all adding up to a large sum?)
If you don't want to answer that question, no problem. It's not really my business anyway.

Again, I wish you the best of luck.

----Brooks Buncher

From: Brooks Buncher (************)
Sent: Thu 3/26/09 7:00 PM
To: Ray Goushaw ([email protected])
Heya Ray, it's Brooks Buncher. Haven't called ya or emailed in a while. How ya doing?

Hey, I was wondering if you had gotten the money that was owed to ya.....funds are tight on my end, I lost my job.
I was hoping I could get you to send me the money that you owed me. It's been quite a while, at this point...

Sorry for being so frank, but I'm in the middle of writing a big research report for my economics professor.

Hope you're doing well,

------Brooks Buncher

From: DZ Orca (************)
Sent: Wed 9/23/09 10:47 PM
To: Ray Goushaw ([email protected])
Hey, it's Brooks Buncher. Remember me? I was going to buy that argentine B&W from you a while back, but it got injured before you were able to send it. I've been trying to contact you for a long time now, no reply. I would really like the refund you promised and have been putting off due to personal financial troubles, aka the court battle you went through. Please contact me at ************


If I come off as rude, I apologize, but I'm rightfully frustrated. I've left periodic phone messages as well as emails, with no reply. It has been over a year now.[/QUOTE]

Heh, it had been over two years, actually....

I'm determined to get my 250 dollars back....and am to the point where if I don't get my money soon, I'm going to sue, and I'm not stating that as an empty threat; I've already been looking in to my legal options.
I feel that I've been more than fair.

Oh, and I'm open for input! :)
 
Here's a copy of his business card:
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Oh, I almost forgot. I also sent this message to him a few weeks ago via his own account here on Fauna Classifieds.

Hey, it's Brooks Buncher. Remember me? I was going to buy that argentine B&W from you a while back, but it got injured before you were able to send it. I've been trying to contact you for a long time now, no reply. I would really like the refund you promised and have been putting off due to personal financial troubles, aka the court battle you went through. Please contact me at [email protected]


If I come off as rude, I apologize, but I'm rightfully frustrated. I've left periodic phone messages as well as emails, with no reply. It has been over a year now.
 
Yes, of course. I called him as I was typing the original thread, and yes, I told him a while back as well that I was going to make a thread if he didn't right the situation.

To be honest, I expect that, eventually, he'll show up and give me the money, once he realizes what's going on. I dunno, he's either forgotten about me, or he has ignored the numerous voicemails I've left on his phone as well as the emails.
I didn't think he was a bad guy, and I don't want to think he is. I really try to look for the best in people.....I just disagree with how he kinda took advantage of how little of a spine I had when I was dealing with him...I mean, I was 16!

I'm 18 now, and still trying to get my money back. I understand he was going through money problems, but he didn't have the right to use the money that I payed him for other things, and if he did use it and he wasn't expecting to have to refund me, he should have righted the situation, which he never did. Contact became less and less frequent, until he stopped answering.
He has had, until now, a brilliant reputation, as far as I know.
I'm just hoping that he can show up and right the situation, and we can settle this BOI listing. I really don't want to take legal action over 250 dollars..you'd think he'd have come up with it by now. -__-

His FaunaClassifieds user name is herpetological
http://www.faunaclassifieds.com/forums/member.php?u=3169
 
I just spoke to an old affiliate of his. The man says that he's been absent from his local herp society, the one that he used to be a higher up in.
It sounds like he owes more people than just me money...argh....
I have a few more numbers I'm going to call.
 
I don't know what is going on with Ray, and this is not meant as support or criticism....

He hasn't logged on to this site for quite some time (at least as of when I looked a day or so ago), so your recent PM wasn't received.
Being absent from herp society functions does not necessarily imply owing people money. Heck, I went from being a long time board member/officer to canceling my membership and having nothing to do with our local society, and I didn't owe anybody a dime when it happened. Lots of stuff can happen that change people's focus - I'm not implying that this makes it acceptable to default on a debt, I'm just not willing to paint with such a broad stroke just yet. Maybe he does owe you...but, unless you have proof of similar situations, you should probably avoid commenting on what else he might owe.
 
I don't know what is going on with Ray, and this is not meant as support or criticism....

He hasn't logged on to this site for quite some time (at least as of when I looked a day or so ago), so your recent PM wasn't received.
Being absent from herp society functions does not necessarily imply owing people money. Heck, I went from being a long time board member/officer to canceling my membership and having nothing to do with our local society, and I didn't owe anybody a dime when it happened. Lots of stuff can happen that change people's focus - I'm not implying that this makes it acceptable to default on a debt, I'm just not willing to paint with such a broad stroke just yet. Maybe he does owe you...but, unless you have proof of similar situations, you should probably avoid commenting on what else he might owe.

The person I spoke to told that he was exactly held in the highest of opinions with the local herp society due tot he way he had been conducting his business, and that he was in fact involved in "financial complications" with people other than me.
Also, I'm sorry; I didn't mean to make it sound like I was making an assumption.
He told me, the last time that I actually spoke with him on the phone, that he was owed some money by a reptile store, and that he was giving that whole issue priority to paying me back.


All that said, I don't think that the guy I spoke with wanted to be directly involved in the situation, even though he did want to help me out with getting a hold of Ray and getting the money, so I won't be posting his name.

The guy did give me the phone number of someone else who used to be in contact with Ray, so I'll be calling him. I'll post the results.
 
Oh hhmoore, I didn't just pm him; I called his phone a few times. His phone which WAS turned on, although he didn't pick up, so I left a message.
 
I just spoke to an old affiliate of his. The man says that he's been absent from his local herp society, the one that he used to be a higher up in.
It sounds like he owes more people than just me money...argh....
I have a few more numbers I'm going to call.

Alright, I didn't realize that the anonymous quotation would result in an infraction.
I spoke with Bob Lund. His contact information is actually posted up on the St. Lucie Herp Society website set up for open access; it's how I got in contact with him.
 
Oh hhmoore, I didn't just pm him; I called his phone a few times. His phone which WAS turned on, although he didn't pick up, so I left a message.

I understood that the PM wasn't the only way you tried to contact him. I was just pointing out that he hadn't been here.
 
I understood that the PM wasn't the only way you tried to contact him. I was just pointing out that he hadn't been here.

Ah, my mistake. I just didn't want people to think that I hadn't tried in every way possible to let him know that I was posting a negative threat regarding him in the BOI.
 
I just spoke to an old affiliate of his. The man says that he's been absent from his local herp society, the one that he used to be a higher up in.
It sounds like he owes more people than just me money...argh....
I have a few more numbers I'm going to call.

Ray was the founder and President of the St.Lucie Regional Herp Society. He has not been affiliated with the society for about 2 years. I am the current President. I spoke with Bob earlier today and just to make things clear he did not say Ray owed other people money. He said he had some finacial challenges. Which Ray has openly admited to you. It's not that he doesn't want to help..he just doesn't know. I am the guy you are supposed to contact. Ray has moved from the eleven mile road address. I don't have his current one, but his phone number is the same. I am sorry for your problems, but I don't know what else I can offer. I did call and leave him a message to let him know about this thread.

Matthew Lund
SLRSH pres.
 
Ray was the founder and President of the St.Lucie Regional Herp Society. He has not been affiliated with the society for about 2 years. I am the current President. I spoke with Bob earlier today and just to make things clear he did not say Ray owed other people money. He said he had some finacial challenges. Which Ray has openly admited to you. It's not that he doesn't want to help..he just doesn't know. I am the guy you are supposed to contact. Ray has moved from the eleven mile road address. I don't have his current one, but his phone number is the same. I am sorry for your problems, but I don't know what else I can offer. I did call and leave him a message to let him know about this thread.

Matthew Lund
SLRSH pres.

Thank you for posting, Matt.

First off, thank Bob again for me for the help he gave me, and tell him also that I very much enjoyed talking to him. He's a tremendous guy, and spoke even higher of his son ;)

Now, moving on;

I just spoke with Ray.
He, a while back, lost his full list of contacts, addresses, etc, as he kept in all just in his phone. The sim card in his phone was destroyed, and he lost most of the info. He's basically been relying on other people calling him to retrieve numbers.
He admitted to having forgotten entirely about his debt to me, through everything going on. He says that he has not been monitoring his email address for the most part, and has been mostly disconnected from the herp world. He's doing mostly just local animals now; he's not doing the importing/exporting anymore.
I feel, now that we're finally back in touch, that he'll make every effort he can to right the situation.

He cannot pay me back right away as he doesn't have the money, but will try to do so in increments as soon as he has positive money flow.
We spoke a bit about the possibility of him hooking me up with a Bredli in place of the debt, but nothing's really set in stone.

I'll post updates if there's something new or if the situation changes.
 
I feel, now that we're finally back in touch, that he'll make every effort he can to right the situation.

He cannot pay me back right away as he doesn't have the money, but will try to do so in increments as soon as he has positive money flow.
We spoke a bit about the possibility of him hooking me up with a Bredli in place of the debt, but nothing's really set in stone.

I'll post updates if there's something new or if the situation changes.

Brooks, you're 18 naively optimistic - IMO. I am a lot older and much more cynical about reading the same run-around that was given 2 years ago. Hopefully you're right and I am wrong. Good luck.
 
Brooks, you're 18 naively optimistic - IMO. I am a lot older and much more cynical about reading the same run-around that was given 2 years ago. Hopefully you're right and I am wrong. Good luck.

I know...it's kind of who I am. I'm not as much overly optimistic as I am over trusting. I always want to look for the good in people.

Regardless, I do believe he's going to right the situation.
 
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