bobtard |
02-28-2012 07:04 PM |
From his blog.
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The good, the bad, and the ugly . . . .
Posted on February 27, 2012 at 2:30 AM
It is SO sad to see SO many fall to the wayside based upon speculation, half-truths, and some just plain ass-kissing to keep good relations with others for personal interest -- especially a few whom I was once becoming quite close to. You know who you are, & whom have even purchased some of my snakes in years past and report NO problems with them. What's more, someone (RS) who just several short years ago was gung-ho in getting zonata from me who eventually backed out after months of communication with me because of family medical issues. Never, not once, had an issue with me yet jumps in on the utter craziness to try and practically e-lynch me. LOL. I'm just speechless. Some clearly have a personal matter at hand here, for whatever their reason. I really do not care anymore as I have tried to reason with whom this problem began with & full well knowing that I have NEVER done anything to harm this individual -- unless you consider disagreeing with you or selling zonata a personal attack. Indeed, the simplistically-stupid root of all this has turned into nothing more than a ploy to be vindictive and slanderous...and for WHAT I don't know. Why not target OTHERS who have either free or w/c or (God-forbid) purchased zonata with FULL intentions of breeding them and selling the offspring?! Why just me with the fucking bullseye on my back? Just a cauldron of hatred, when I've done NOTHING to cause intentional harm to anyone. NOTHING. Yet you try to pin on me some form of "issue" or "problem", which I may add, you've caused many others to believe. Now THAT is sickening. Regardless, whether it be the academic prowess stashed into one's pocket or the rat/s following behind the academic pied-piper, whatever I say is worthless I'm sure. You're way too far into your trail of intentional destruction to look back and re-think how assinine this has all been......all over former disagreements and this idiotic behavior to make me out to be a bad guy when I ,again, haven't done anything to harm anyone. PERIOD. But yet it's been made to believe that "I'm doing it to myself"? Sure, go and tell a few BS lies (which one of the rat pack is infamous for...) or misconstrue something I say and twist it........SURE, it looks bad! But I challenge anyone who feels I've intentionally screwed or hurt them in the past to come forward and call me personally and discuss it. Aside from the complainant in this current situation, I bet that damn phone of mine won't ring........not once.
Getting back to the current scenario.........
There are two sides to every story, and I have mine. I also have clear documentation that I HAVE, indeed, tried to maintain contact with the complainant as well as have a clear timeline of communication which clearly shows how things went from 0 - 60 over the span of two weeks and subsequent to the complainants clear expressions of "I'm less worried Jerry, they're eating, shedding out fine, and looking like they're on the mend". I acknowledge that I also did voice MY frustrations, respectfully, in this whole process -- which unfortunately were not received well by the complainant. I believe he wanted me to say "how high" when he said "jump". No, I'm sorry - that is not how I operate. Again, I have clear and concise documentations of every transaction, each dated accordingly, between myself and the complainant. Moreover, I have sold clutchmates of the complainant's specimens to another gentleman whom, following exactly how I keep mine, has expressed NO problems whatsoever with his babies and updates me almost bi-weekly on them out of sheer excitement of having them. This gentleman (along with several other prior interested parties over the years) had also been to my home just this past November 2011, along with a very close friend of his, and has had the opportunity to observe each and every snake I have. The collection is in pristine condition, and I can have more than one individual attest to this. This is why my conscience is clear. What is being described by the complainant is a SYMPTOM of something, which is an appearance of dehydration expressed as dry skin. There ARE NO motor-action issues or neurological compromises at all. They are feeding, and as described by the complainant to me in more than one communication they "appear to be on the mend". I do not know exactly what happened in the two weeks the complainant had them, despite his years of experience of breeding alterna, tropical milks, etc. From what I was told via text messages, the complainant stated he kept the snakes in shoeboxes that could go as high as 82F on one end and as low as 72F on the other. At first I felt a bit uncomfortable with this, but considering how the complainant became a bit irritated with my initial concern for his receiving these snakes by my repeated reminders of how they're feeding and the need to give them a bit more TLC, etc etc, I decided to not ruffle any feathers and let it go as he assured me that he had "hunted zonata in their natural habitat & has kept zonata in years past". These animals were in MINT condition upon being sent, having left being in my care post-hatch for just over 4 months to get them started feeding voluntarily for the complainant. I even threw in an additional hetero female snake as well at no cost. At NO point in time did these snakes show ANY sign of problems and were even photo-posted on the KS forum for all to see their progress. The complainant reported they were feeding well and thriving. Two weeks pass and the problem begins and here we are NOW.
Subsequent to my request to take the snakes back to work with (which I may add that if I felt it WERE the highly-speculated "ZD" I would NOT be offering to have them returned in the first place), the complainant stated via email that he would not send the snakes back to me ON THE MORNING OF EXPECTED SHIPMENT stating he's changed his mind because he was "feeling more confident after their recent shed & continued to feel as if they were on the mend". I expressed a bit of discomfort in this, still stating that I'd prefer to take the snakes at this point while expressing MY frustrations in the complainants impulsivity from being "confident that the snakes were on the mend" to admittingly going to the forum to "pressure me and teach me a lesson" within a 2 week period of time. The complainant states that he'd tried to reach me via text before going to the forum, however my cellular phone was down for about 2 weeks upon return from being away for the 2011 holidays out-of-country. So, I also requested from the complainant to re-send me that attempted text contact I had never received so that I could read what he was trying to tell me. Instead of allowing me to have the opportunity to see what he'd texted me, the complainant then angrily shot back demanding that I no longer make any contact with him, acknowledging he'd gone to the forums to "pressure me" in returning the money immediately, and stating that he hopes I've "learned my lesson". Well I contacted my cellular carrier and got hold of that un-received text sent by the complainant on 1/26/12 -- it clearly stated toward the end that "the fact that they are all feeding well and shedding tells me that they are on the mend". Just a short 11 days later on 2/6/12, with NO OTHER means of communication attempted to reach me whatsoever, the complainant impulsively jumps onto the forum and here we are today. He could have emailed me or tried to call and leave a voice message, but only texted me (which I only learned of about ten days ago) indicating that all was looking better. I have maintained contact with the complainant, tried to work this through calmly & rationally, & continued offering to work with the snakes for as long as necessary after having them returned to me taking this one step at a time. Nothing more, nothing less. Even after the complainant advised to me to not contact him anymore, I STILL sent two emails asking to be rational about this and to please send the snakes back....and to no avail. Yet I'm the bad guy???
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