Or you can walk into a room, grab a drink, kick back, and watch others crash and burn. I find this amusing. Nothing like watching 5 guys go up to one female and all get shot down. it also gives one time to construct a game plan on what she is interested in and how to go about putting that plan in action.

People watching is always fun...especially when you can deduce things about them, real or imagined. ;)

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Thread hijacking is better than no replies, right?? LOL!! Besides...we're just keeping the seat warm until your "slave" comes to sit with us. ;)

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Shoot, honey, it must be pretty warm by now ( I imagine YOURS is HOT lol) Over 2,000 hits on this thread and no slave BF, I tell ya, it's the pits, all the men on this board seem like they are NOT the submissive slave types......am I right?

Maybe they're too intimidated by your wits and skills. ;)

Nah, I've made new friends here; and instead of being intimidated by my...skills....they seem to like the challenge; but they too are handfuls, not meek slave bfs.

LOL what a post --- iI have drank a few cups of coffee reading all this bull-- LOL-- love is a hard thing -it take a huge comitment from both partys to make it work -- it doesn't just happen -- I think most people get to confortable in a relationship and think ohh well I have them so I don't have to try anymore and that is when your world comes crumbling down on top of you ! You have to work at a relationship everyday and then you will find and have the most awesome love of your llife!!

am I rambling >?? LOL_-

GOOD LUCK to everyone in thier searh for thier soul mate !

That's so true, Floyd!! You can start with the best plant in the best soil but if you don't water it regularly, what do you have?

I've lived with 2 men. The first one I had settled for, and didn't really love, so I didn't put the work into it. The second didn't really love me...I tried and tried but it didn't work either.

I firmly believe that anyone can have a good relationship with anyone, as long as both people put in the work. "Work" is being kind, considerate, thoughful and most of all, being a good communicator. But the trick is, getting BOTH to agree on that goal. LOL!