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Originally Posted by garweft
Tell him to get a better job (or any job if he doesn't have one), and to stop telling you what to do with your money. Don't buy him a car and tell him he needs to start helping with bills.
Don't be scared to lose someone who is unwilling to contribute to you both having a life you both enjoy.
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I'm gonna go with this one (Lucille and others make some good points too).
and I just want to say that.....just because we are older doesn't mean we have to settle for men that do not recognize our value in their lives and treat us as if we are only there for their satisfaction (while you did give monetary value, he has contributed by working with you, correct? I give credit where credit is due.)
Honey, I know that you know that it is possible to have a younger man with a job that likes spending money on you!
But if you love him and you are determined to see this though...I hope it all works out for you.
