My experience is different. My experience is that most women (and men) are good and likeable people.
A lot of people have built 'armor' based on past, unsatisfactory experiences that sometimes makes them difficult to approach. Skilled people bypass this armor.
Almost every single person I have ever met has something valuable to contribute; and almost everyone has a basic need for companionship, friendship, love.
Some people want relationships to be like fast food at MacDonald's: cheap, hot and easy. You get what you pay for.
A bit of thought, skill, and time will unlock the value inherent in almost every human being. Respect, admiration and persistence will accomplish wonders and will make you, yourself, a better person.
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