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Old 05-30-2006, 02:44 PM   #27
nicolai
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Originally Posted by Griz
You can disagree all you want, I anticipated such responses, but the fact of the matter is that statistics prove my point. Nobody, I don't care how educated you are or are not, can deny the fact that pornography slowly leads to stronger pornography etc. It is a downhill slide that slowly, almost always unbeknownst to the viewer, desynthesizes them to what they are viewing. Pornography is NEVER part and parcel to an active or healthy sex life. This part of my argument cannot be denied. It's fact.

But, take a look at another issue. That woman you are watching is someone's daughter. Would you want thousands of men to be achieving sexual gratification to your daughter? At some point, men need to be men and it's not by sexually gratifying yourself to a television screen. That girl you are watching is a person, a real life person and you should respect them more than that. THEY should respect themselves more than that. To do otherwise is to simply state that you do not care about that person. That your sexual needs are more important then the worth of that individual or your own marriage.

Before you go off defending your positions here, take a look at the statistics regarding pornography. It is staggering. After you comprehend what it is you just read (statistics) imagine those statistics being about your own daughter. It has to change your viewpoint at least slightly. Pornography is never innocent. Somewhere, somehow, someone is being hurt by your activities. The sad thing is that often times, that someone resides in your own home and you are not even cognitive enough to be aware of it.

Griz
I would love to see those statitics. Yes, the girls/guys that are making nd participating in tohose ilms are indeed someones daughters or sons and are in it of thier own free will. Sure you can say that some dont have any other alternative then that but the majority of the peole in the porn idustry are in it for the money and the enjoyment. Yes i have two daughters that i love very much and hope they neer go in to porn, i have higher expectations for them, But when they are grown adults i can not stop them from making ay choices they make.
Porn doesnt lead to sexual deviancy, or create sexual predators. Those kind of people dont even watch porn, they need personal involvement to fulfil thier desires and needs.
As for respecting themselves more, are we now to judge people and tell them what is and isnt repectable. I am a devout orthodox and i do not judge people for who they are or what thier life styles mey be. To each his own, let god judge everyone when they die, while they are here who are we to judge them lest we be judged ourselves.
Porn can and has been a part of healthy relationhips and have savd many a couple from breaking up. Jst because some be might not find porn to be a activity they choose to participate in that doesnt mean its wrong for everyone.