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Originally Posted by lucille
Chris,
I can't think of any set of circumstances. He should have kept in contact. All of us have hard times in our lives, but he should have been talking to you unless he was in the ICU or something.
I think, though, that a day is not a long time, and giving that opportunity is as much for us as it is for him. I know I'm not saying it very elegantly, but it just seems fair to give notice and an opportunity to be heard.
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Even beyond a lack of contact, if he was in fact in the ICU, the lies about the money orders would never have happened. I do agree, a day is not long at all. The last I heard from him was on 1-14 and I didn't post this until 2-15. A month and a day later. Anyway, be it a day, a week, a month, or a year later, I'd still like to hear from Dean so he can explain what circumstances got him here. Don't give me the divorce crap either. That certainly doesn't make you lie to people and tell them you sent them money when you didn't. I even told him "Communication is key. I'm the easiest person in the world to deal with. Just let me know what's going on"