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Originally Posted by Lucille
Welcome!!! I have kept hermit crabs in the past, they are interesting.
You might consider your relationship prior to acquiring any reptiles, and perhaps find someone different or go it on your own. It seems to me that one partner not 'allowing' the other to do something is pretty toxic.
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ah my intention wasnt to make my partner out to be controlling. i promise its pretty much the opposite.
we do live together, so theres context. its understandable to want to consider the other persons feelings about having a bunch of reptiles in one home before going out and buying them.
Also, i dont mind this much. if i had a choice i would probably get carried away just because i tend to impulse buy things in general. and i dont want more animals than i can handle or afford. (that wouldnt be fair to anyone. especially the animals)
thank you for the concern though! she really has opened up to owning snakes especially. shes just not used to owning them and hasnt really grown up around them like i have which is fine. but shes making an effort and thats all i can ask for.