Originally Posted by DoraDay

I have very little nerve when it comes to guys. I've had a crush on my vet forever and I finally got up the nerve to ask him out.

Well, I got up the nerve to ask someone else to ask him out...still, it's a big step for me...

Good news..he's single and looking to date

Bad news...he's gay


I must have the worst gaydar ever. I have many gay friends and relatives, I should be better. This is the 2nd gay man I've had a crush on and if he had said yes it would have been the 2nd I've dated.

What's up with that? Why am I attracted to gay men?