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You can find studies to support nearly any view that you choose to take. I'm not about to spend my day looking for it, because in the end you will still find porn to be the downfall of America, and I will still find porn ok so long as it's not in excess.
For you, it may feel it's equivalent to letting another woman into bed with us, for me, it's not even close. Trying to explain to you why I feel that way would be about as useful as banging my head into the wall.
My part in this conversation is at an end. Don't kid yourself that I "skipped over" your post...I read every word, thought about them, and disagree with them being used as a generalisation (they do apply to a small number of people). I just know well enough that nothing I say would change your mind.
To everyone in general: Set the boundaries that are OK for you and your life and stick to them. Don't be a sheep, control your own life. I think as herpers, we all have a general understanding of what it's like to follow your own path.
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