Wow. I really didn't think my little story would blossom into the discussion that it has.
I appreciate everyone's input as this has become a very interesting conversation.
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not going to go into my personal experiences, but I would warn that if someone cannot stop doing something that both of you have agreed is wrong for the relationship, and tries to make it YOUR fault, that it is important to realize that it is not in fact your fault and that you have done nothing wrong..
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Lucille, you're very sweet. I know it's in no way shape or form any fault of mine. I found it amusing when I backed him into a corner and that was his excuse. Chris (like myself) will panic when cornered and spew out ridiculous things when he has nothing else to say.
Everything hateful he did say he did come back and apologize for later when I wouldn't give in about the situation and he had some time to think about what he did wrong.
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Dr. Phil would maybe say its because the man isn't getting something at home, so he seeks it out through other avenues, such as watching and using his imagination.
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This was exactly my view on it. I'm not Dr Phil, but I do have my insecurities...Which I will admit partly stems from the fact that I've gained a good 50lbs since Chris and I have been together. As I have said, I enjoyed what little porn had to offer when in a relationship I knew was not going to last. I will admit that it was because I was searching for something I wasn't getting with whom I was with. But that's just me and my humble opinion.
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After all, when have you ever heard the woman asking the man to go get a towel?
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I don't know what you're referring to...But I have asked Chris to grab a towel before!
Anyway...I have no issues with others who enjoy Porn. I on the other hand, will not tolerate it in my relationship...