The one!

Sometimes you just don't know until it's too late.

This is one thing that stands out to me.

Back before me and Crissy had even thought about each other as far as relationships go we were talking via PM. Sometimes about stuff on the forum... sometimes not. I had told her about my weight loss goals and she said she would try to keep me motiviated so I could reach those goals... even though she thought I didnt need to loose any weight.

Fast forward a bit and we decided we have enough in common thru just normal convos that we discuss trying to make a relationship work.

Fast forward to last night..... Crissy asked me if I had been going riding (bought a mtn bike to help with the weight loss) and on schedule. Ummmmmm well........ no **looks to the floor**

She doesn't even think I need to loose the weight but she proceeded to scold me because I had fallen off my routine and it was something I wanted to do. She is willing to support me in my goals even though she doesnt think I need to loose weight.

To me... that says alot and I would like to say thanks to Crissy for helping me reach my goals. It takes me about 30 mins to make my 3.2 mile circle, and one of the reasons I havent been going this week is even at midnight it is freakin hot and humid. I now have a solution for that... I have been granted access to a pool (even at midnight).... so on the nights Its really hot and humid... then I'll just do laps for 30 mins instead of the ride.

Originally Posted by Southern Wolf

This is one thing that stands out to me.

Back before me and Crissy had even thought about each other as far as relationships go we were talking via PM. Sometimes about stuff on the forum... sometimes not. I had told her about my weight loss goals and she said she would try to keep me motiviated so I could reach those goals... even though she thought I didnt need to loose any weight.

Fast forward a bit and we decided we have enough in common thru just normal convos that we discuss trying to make a relationship work.

Fast forward to last night..... Crissy asked me if I had been going riding (bought a mtn bike to help with the weight loss) and on schedule. Ummmmmm well........ no **looks to the floor**

She doesn't even think I need to loose the weight but she proceeded to scold me because I had fallen off my routine and it was something I wanted to do. She is willing to support me in my goals even though she doesnt think I need to loose weight.

To me... that says alot and I would like to say thanks to Crissy for helping me reach my goals. It takes me about 30 mins to make my 3.2 mile circle, and one of the reasons I havent been going this week is even at midnight it is freakin hot and humid. I now have a solution for that... I have been granted access to a pool (even at midnight).... so on the nights Its really hot and humid... then I'll just do laps for 30 mins instead of the ride.

Babe, i want you to be happy with yourself, and i will support you in whatever you decide to do in life, case in point, your weight loss goals. And i know you will support me when the time comes for me to lose all the baby weight i will have gained by the time the girls are born.

I had a feeling you had fallen behind on your bike riding, that's why i asked you about it last night. You will feel so good when you reach your goal, and i will be so proud of you for sticking with it and achieving it.

Until then, i will continue to be your own personal cheerleader