There are lots of little ways to let someone know you're 'interested'. From the obvious giggles of teenagers to the quiet, knowing smile of a confident woman, these signals send out a welcome message and more. How do you send a 'flirt signal'?
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Flirt signals + 1 OK
- Thread starter Lucille
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ZX11
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I never knew how to fliirt. Even worse, I never learned to read any signals, either.
ladyserpent7
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if i had to choose, it would be a simple wink...but the other one i chose is i dont have to flirt, they know and i know...but sometimes its fun to add some spice..oh and a couple of other ways is..theres this thing i like to do w/ my fingers on their arm...kinda like brushing up and down w/ my nails..cuz i have long nails..and it feels good 
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..old guy
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I didn't know if this was
a multi able check off poll.............but I checked conversation and would of checked sideways smile toward a female. But hey.........I've been known to just come out and say to any stranger ( female ) " hello there cutie " ! It has never got my face slapped as of yet ! LOL ! I seem to do well in conversation in a lot of retail stores chiefly the grocery stores where I pose to wanting to find some product. I don't necessarily mean the store employees but female shoppers > I scan what may be in the their carts and pick out one item that i see and ask them where that item that they have in cart may be found or if they prefer that over something else. OR if they are looking at the shelf, I pretend to be looking for the same item of the shelf and will start up small talk on what we,they, I am looking for ( nope, not meaning WHAT I'm looking for but the grocery item .). Something else that I have found out, we being creatures of nature and habits, i seem to recognize many female shoppers that is in store at the same time that I am on either the several day or weekly shopping event. This makes a conversation so much easier as to me remarking> " Hey, we gotta stop meeting this way " or " isn't this just about the best time to shop for deals ? ". My best line is of the produce area where I aim my remarks to a female on how fresh ( ME ? ) the lettuce looks or how ripe the tomatoes/strawberries are . Yummy ! LOL again !
a multi able check off poll.............but I checked conversation and would of checked sideways smile toward a female. But hey.........I've been known to just come out and say to any stranger ( female ) " hello there cutie " ! It has never got my face slapped as of yet ! LOL ! I seem to do well in conversation in a lot of retail stores chiefly the grocery stores where I pose to wanting to find some product. I don't necessarily mean the store employees but female shoppers > I scan what may be in the their carts and pick out one item that i see and ask them where that item that they have in cart may be found or if they prefer that over something else. OR if they are looking at the shelf, I pretend to be looking for the same item of the shelf and will start up small talk on what we,they, I am looking for ( nope, not meaning WHAT I'm looking for but the grocery item .). Something else that I have found out, we being creatures of nature and habits, i seem to recognize many female shoppers that is in store at the same time that I am on either the several day or weekly shopping event. This makes a conversation so much easier as to me remarking> " Hey, we gotta stop meeting this way " or " isn't this just about the best time to shop for deals ? ". My best line is of the produce area where I aim my remarks to a female on how fresh ( ME ? ) the lettuce looks or how ripe the tomatoes/strawberries are . Yummy ! LOL again !
Are there any historians out there? I know that in days of yore ladies would flirt by dropping their hankies which guys would then retrieve. Seems kinda weird to me in these days of disposable tissues, but does anyone know how or why that flirt habit originated?
BTW this is indeed a multiple choice poll, you might could add on, I don't know. I sort of used a shorthand + 1 OK, maybe I need to write it a different way. Try adding on?
BTW this is indeed a multiple choice poll, you might could add on, I don't know. I sort of used a shorthand + 1 OK, maybe I need to write it a different way. Try adding on?
old guy
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Well just got back from my
true practice of what I preached before on my other post. It just so happened my EVERY 2 day grocery shopping event was on my calender today ( yeah, sure ). I made several eye contacts and one verbal connection. Nothing was definite as far as a date in which I wasn't looking for at this time BUT......give it time as they will remember me as I will them. I have ALWAYS considered and read that the grocery store is one heck of a place to " hook up ". Tried and true by me. Oh yeah, I helped a very attractive lady feel the melons ( no.....not hers ) . LOL !
true practice of what I preached before on my other post. It just so happened my EVERY 2 day grocery shopping event was on my calender today ( yeah, sure ). I made several eye contacts and one verbal connection. Nothing was definite as far as a date in which I wasn't looking for at this time BUT......give it time as they will remember me as I will them. I have ALWAYS considered and read that the grocery store is one heck of a place to " hook up ". Tried and true by me. Oh yeah, I helped a very attractive lady feel the melons ( no.....not hers ) . LOL !
PerfectPetPython
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I am VERY facial when I flirt.....don't really wink that much, but I do use my eyes, brows, and lips. Sometimes I'll bite my lips, or I'll do a cute little giggle. It really depends on the person and the situation though. Now that I'm taken, I really don't flirt.... and ironically, we met on the net, so there really wasn't that much flirting involved at first anyway.
PerfectPetPython
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That's hilarious! did you end up getting her 'digits'?
old guy said:true practice of what I preached before on my other post. It just so happened my EVERY 2 day grocery shopping event was on my calender today ( yeah, sure ). I made several eye contacts and one verbal connection. Nothing was definite as far as a date in which I wasn't looking for at this time BUT......give it time as they will remember me as I will them. I have ALWAYS considered and read that the grocery store is one heck of a place to " hook up ". Tried and true by me. Oh yeah, I helped a very attractive lady feel the melons ( no.....not hers ) . LOL !
The grocery store, great idea!!! Go in for Twinkies, come out with True Love! (Or, a temporary acceptable substitute
)wsmitty
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old guy said:
Great Advice! Thanks! Just to add......in my town i've noticed that for some reason all the really good looking girls shop right around 12:00-1:00 pm.........
