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Originally Posted by WebSlave
Sorry, but no, I don't work that way. I like to try to be as certain as possible that no other option is available before doing something that drastic..............
And my method of enforcing rules (which basically there are none stated) is to just immediately ban anyone who gets out of line.
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I think the middle ground you have been treading here might be best for Fauna. Prior to your new rules, when there were few consequences, there were miserable people suffering at the hands of those who just wanted to jerk people around for no good reason other than to have some 'fun'. I am glad you have changed the rules to help prevent that sort of misery.
But if you were to immediately ban anyone who got out of line I would be gone because I violated the very rule this thread refers to, and that would make me very sad because my failure to abide by your rule was more of an oversight than any intentional stepping across a line in the sand. I have not made the same error after receiving my warning point so it did exactly what it was supposed to do, warn.
I think that as rules are firmly enforced people come to accept them and there is less aggravation in enforcing them. I lived through raising teenagers and they will test every rule made for them, and they were a royal pain in the behind for a while.
But they knew and respected certain inviolate rules. From the time they were wee ones, they knew that without a seat belt on, the car wasn't going to move period and I never varied that rule and it wasn't long before they never broke it.
But I did have to warn them, and tell them, at first.
And you have a sliding scale up to and including immediate removal if behavior warrants that sanction. But I do like the warning system for relatively innocent one time mistakes, and I would hope that neither here or at cornsnake.com would anyone ever be gone for such trifling errors done a single time, you are a fair person and I think that minor infractions deserve a warning.
"I like to give someone sufficient warning to be able to correct mannerisms that may just be a mistake in judgement before kicking them off the site for good."
I think small infractions deserve warnings. I think the posts that jerk people around, make them miserable, escalate the situation and are just flat mean do not. Even when my kids were small they had enough sense not to talk certain ways in front of certain people so there is just no excuse and those people need to go elsewhere, or to Hell.
Just my 2 cents.