"This is not to say that men can't lord the almighty penis over some women to bring them into submission, but it is less effective to the general female population, IMHO. (Unless it is huge, or can dance, or vibrates maybe?? I don't know...) "
I about fell out of my chair after I read that last part Lady.. hmmmm if yours vibrates.. give me a call
This thread has been around for a while and I enjoyed reading everyones posts... I did my share of bed-hoping before I was married.. and again for a bit after my divorce. Skill is a great thing in partner, even if they are man-whores for a while to get that way
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I am glad I did not wait til marraige. I know some people feel that is how it should be, but like everything else in our lives different people need different things. Emotional attachment is good, at times it doesn't matter though.. you just need to get laid .
Being in the relationship I am in now sex is great, we are open about it and that is another important factor... You need to be open and honest about what you like and what you want... and for some what you won't do or feel uncomfortable doing.. anyhow.. to each his or her own