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Originally Posted by Mister Internet
So... you really think, in the above scenario, that my friend has any right to say anything to the original retailer? I don't think any reasonable person would say that they do. Unless this snake was sold with a 5 year/50,000 mile warranty, I don't think for one second the OP had any right bothering BHB about this. He should have gotten his refund from his "friend"... some friend, if he won't step in and make this right for David during all this time...
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I'm the "Friend" that you are implicating and I take offense to that. I've done my best to stay out of this thread as much as possible because I still value my business and personal relationship but both David and Brian and fear the more I post the more I risk alienating one or both of them. And I don't know what I can add to this thread that will help reach a resolution for either side. I'm not sure what I can really do in this scenario. If there is something I can do I will happily do it.
Not sure if you read my post about the details of the original purchase of the spider het male back on page 7 but if you haven't read it I'll just re-iterate some of it here. David (the OP) and I talk often about our plans. I wanted a pied female he was thinking of selling and at the same time I had an order in the works with BHB. David says he too had talked to BHB about an adult male spider het ghost because David has big het females that he wants to breed so he doesn't want to wait and raise a baby.
So since I have the order in the works with him I call Brian and ask about the male for David, that's even how Brian knows what adult male spider het ghost I'm talking about. I basically tell Brian, David was talking to you about this spider het ghost male and David and I work on some projects together so we thought I'd see if he'd give me a discount over the price he quoted David since I have a sizable order already in the works. It's not like I called Brian and said Oh and add a baby spider het ghost male to my order, I had to describe the specific animal that David and Brian had previously discussed. So all three of us know exactly what's going on. I'm buying an animal for David from Brian to save some money. I think the main reason that Brian didn't ship the spider het directly to David is simply then Brian is shipping twice on one sale and shipping isn't inexpensive. He had already discounted the price on the animal it would be a lot to ask to then say "Can you go ahead and lose more money by shipping directly to David?".
Had I known at the time that something like this could have happened I can now say I wouldn't have done it but at the time it seemed harmless; I get my order from Brian, and a Pied from David, and save $250, David gets the spider het ghost he wanted from BHB and remaining cash from me for the pied girl, and Brian made another $1500 on top of what he was already making from me. At the time it seemed there were no losers here. Since it was Brian I never even thought to ask for a photo ID. I can't even count the number of amazing animals I've received from Brian over the year and David didn't ask me to get a photo ID so the thought never entered my head to ask for one. I have other hets from BHB in my collection and I have never asked for a photo ID on them. I recently made a trade with Bradford Cole Herp for a Lesser Het Stripe male. I didn't ask for a photo ID from him either because I trust him. After I had received the lesser het Cory did ask me if I'd like a photo ID. Here's his email and my response: (I know this doesn't have direct bearing on this thread but just as essentially a character witness to support my stance about photo IDs when dealing with somebody I know and trust).
Re: Message about
: Proven Breeder Morphs - male and female
From:
CHRISTOPHER HUFFMAN <huff747@sbcglobal.net>
To: "Bradford Cole, Inc." <sales@bcherp.com>
If you want to put something together that would be fine. No rush. I don't need it for me and I don't see myself getting rid of him until I have he's produced a male lesser genetic stripe that's ready to breed so it'll probably be a while before I'd be looking to sell him.
Thanks.
Chris
From: "Bradford Cole, Inc." <sales@bcherp.com>
To: Chris Huffman <huff747@sbcglobal.net>
Sent: Fri, October 22, 2010 8:24:24 AM
Subject: RE: Message about
: Proven Breeder Morphs - male and female
Chris-
I totally spaced giving you a photo verification, would you like one? I can use the pics I sent you previously.
Thanks in advance,
Cory
Bradford Cole, Inc.
(317)663-3006
www.bcherp.com
As I said at the beginning of this post if there is something I can do I would happily try as I hate seeing a Bad Guy thread for Brian who I think is a stand up guy and I also hate seeing David worked up as I know David too is a great guy and some of his posts have helped to form others opinions about him which I don't think accurately represent his true self. I have racked my brain about what I can do to help but I can't come up with anything. I know that what I sent David is exactly what I received from Brian but I have no means to prove that. How could anybody prove that in this scenario? I've provided David with the original receipt from BHB, all parties knew what was going on when the d
I'm trying to remain impartial and will happily share my opinions on both Brian and David and answer any and all questions.
My opinions for what it's worth:
Brian - Brian is a great guy. He's very helpful and has always provided top notch animals. That said Brian can be very very hard to get ahold of. I've probably dealt with Brian more than David has so I'm use to a deal with Brian taking months to close. I had one deal with Brian that was started in Aug 09 and finally closed in Jan or Feb 10. I'm sure he closed hundreds of other deals during that same period of time in days but it didn't bother me as I knew eventually it would close. I would email, call, etc. sometimes go weeks without hearing as he was busy with shows and breeding. But he did come through. It didn't stop me from picking up a champagne from him just a couple months ago (a deal that closed in a matter of days this time). He has a lot of irons in the fire, sometimes that can be a bad thing but I am very laid back so 5 months to close a deal with him didn't bother me, but it apparently did bother David.
David - David too is a great guy. David too has provided me top notch animals. David included myself (and Cliff) on the original email he sent to Brian when he had two clutches from hets that failed to produce a visual so once again, all parties were aware. That said I still think (and I have told David this) that before it went this far the male should have been bred to a visual female. I saw somebody post that het to het is 25% chance of visual and het to homozygous is 50% so they didn't see much of a difference in the two but I would disagree. In het x het both parents have a 50% chance of passing the gene on so to get a visual from het x het you have to get lucky with both parents passing it to the same offspring. In het x homo that homozygous parent is going to give the gene to 100% of the offspring so you only have to get lucky on that other parent. And it only has to give it to one baby out of the clutch and you'll have a visual. So I know the odds aren't that much different but how you arrive at those odds is vastly different. If David had come to me before posting this thread on the BOI I would have told him that I thought Brian would come through and even though the months seemed long to him to give it more time.
As I said before I can't see a good way for me to help this situation much. The animal was never for me and both Brian and David knew that, I had it in my possession long enough to make sure David was ready to receive him, it was probably 4 or 5 days tops. I probably received it midweek and shipped it out the following Monday. Some of the suggestions I've seen in the thread I don't think are viable either. If the spider het ghost is sent to me and I prove it out (as I've seen suggested) then a portion of the people viewing this thread are going to think I had kept the spider het male originally and just used him when I "proved" this male so I don't think that solves or proves anything. The best thing that I can see happen is that somebody breeds this male to a visual and it proves. If I had a big visual ghost female available I would even make her available for a public breeding trial but I have 1 orange ghost female and she has been paired with a lemon blast het ghost male that I got from BHB. I haven't seen a lock yet but that doesn't mean there hasn't been a lock so I don't think if she where to be sent for a breeding trial that the results could be trusted unless she throws an actual honeybee in the clutch.
Sorry for the long post, hopefully some of this helps.