OK, you got a 'newbie' here, with an unsolicited, unbiased opinion based simply on what I'm reading, and not on any 'past friendships,' or whatever.
I was going to let this go after reading it with interest, but 'KelliH's' comment made me decide to put my dog in this fight. First of all, it's too bad that the seller hasn't weighed in here, as of course there are two sides to any story. I know neither party, by the way.
I will give it to you that the seller, 'Amy,' is a stellar dealer/breeder. Fine. That does not mean that they can't ever do something wrong...and it's my opinion that in this case, Amy is wrong. As was said, these snakes are not 'her' snakes any longer, though it is admirable, to a point, that she feels a certain 'loyalty' to them. The fact is, though, that she is 'demanding' the return of all of them, and that is not what Beth, the buyer, has in mind. She does not want to return any of the snakes, so I'm not sure why KelliH is telling her to 'just return the snakes.' They are Beth's snakes, and she does not want to return them.
The reason, as I see it, that Beth posted about this on here is not to get a refund on her purchase...as I said, she wants to keep them...but to point out that in 'this' case, Amy was not quite all that 'stellar.' In my opinion, Amy 'embellished' a bit, by saying that Beth questioned the snake's origin and species. That just didn't happen, did it? So Amy tried to 'spin' things her way, and it doesn't quite come off like she wants it to. She wants to throw some blame on Beth into the mix here, and I don't see what Beth did wrong at all.
Perhaps Amy is a wonderful person, but in my opinion, Beth is right to hold on to the snakes and not entertain the idea of returning them just because Amy and KelliH and others are 'demanding' that she does. I think Beth bent over backwards to be 'sweet' to Amy in the emails...something that I, perhaps, wouldn't have been able to do.
'My' two cents.
Randolph James (Rj) Linburg/AKA Mayor Newton
Port Richey, Florida
MayorNewton@BoardOfInquiry.org