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Manny Frade
pulled from manny boas group just now
So I'm having this big battle with this Jendee person. She lends me a boa in 2012 and it didn't breed, then she convinced me to send her a VPI t-pos and I keep him for 2013. So I did, now she says she wants him back cause the VPI was for 2012, can someone read this FB thread and translate it? Cause she made a boi like I cheated her. Did I???
4 hours ago near Miami Springs, FL.
Bobby Williams
Sounds like the run around
4 hours ago via mobile..
Walt Finnegan
for real manny i would just send her snake wash your hands of the deal and cut your loses
4 hours ago via mobile · 4..
Ryan Anderson
I think you should cut your losses and send her back her boa Manny. I read that whole exchange yesterday. The whole thing confused me. You both kinda confused each other I think. Honestly, I think the fact that she felt like she wasn't getting regular updates from you made her contact you more often, which in turn created more opportunity for things to get confusing. You said yourself Manny that you sold over 500 boas this year. The loss of a VPI T+ to keep this situation from becoming a smear campaign would have made sense to me. Of course you already know you are the devil to her until she gets her squaretail back. I don't see this going away until that happens. I'm not saying she is right, i'm just being honest. I don't think she's going to stop, regardless of who is right or wrong. I hate to say it, but this situation reflects poorly on both of you as long as it goes unresolved. I'm certain that's not what either of you wanted.
3 hours ago via mobile · 2.
Manny Frade
Its not about smear or no smear, what i care the most is that people know im not a push over worried about my reputation. Im not running for congress, im running a reptile room and i can not be a push over. I'm a black and white kinda guy. And I agree with you in that its not worth the aggravation. But I don't like trying to be hussled. I don't see the difference between this and "this is a stick up, empty your wallets and give up your watch too. It's principal to a large degree for me. I've done nothing to her, one day she gets a wild hair and deal is killed?? well i paid!!...well she agreed to something and I paid upfront to boot. Give me back my T then lady and i'll gladly send you back your snake?!?!? Am i crazy?
2 hours ago · Edited · 2..
Manny Frade
Bobby Williams, whos running around?
3 hours ago..
Bobby Williams
She is
2 hours ago via mobile..
Brutal Boas
should set an example of being a professional as a top breeder and send her snake back
2 hours ago..
Manny Frade
Well i think she running straight at me actually. but i see your point. just wanted to be clear on those short replies.
2 hours ago..
Manny Frade
what example does that set?
2 hours ago..
Manny Frade
If someone robs your house would you show them the door and a cupcake or would you call the police or worse. what example is the better example to set? the example im going to set is, EXPECIALLY for her, she cannot keep doing deals with big name boa guys and then black mail them about the BOI or start smearing, if i send her back her Squaretail she got want she wants and shes learned nothing, this is not the 1st time she gets slick with big breeders, but i bet it could be her last, at least i hope. And thats the example i REALLY want to set, if people think im an A-hole or whatever so be it, I need to look at myself in the mirror and feel good about me.
2 hours ago · Edited · 1..
Brutal Boas
that in a fued that both sides have flaws and bad communication, you are the bigger man
2 hours ago..
Brutal Boas
bad, bad analogy lol
2 hours ago..
Manny Frade
its not a bad anology cause not returning my payment and pulling what she is attempting to pull is theft. Do you not see it that way??
2 hours ago..
Brutal Boas
not trying to start anything, I read the thread. My opinoin would be to be done with it and cut your losses. Bad press for you in my eyes. And you have great stuff for this hobby.
2 hours ago..
Walt Finnegan
give her an altimatom either send back your snake and you return hers or just call it an even trade
2 hours ago via mobile..
Manny Frade
no walt im not keeping her boa. thats not it either, im not trying to scam her of her boa, im just utilizing him the way we intended and the way i paid for him to be utilized. I will send him back when the breeding is done here. The season is young and she wants him back cause i bet she got a female she wants him on or something and thats cool but i paid for him, you want him NO PROBLEM, give me back my boa. I am not trying to hide from this to cover up my principals. my boas speak for themselves, i sell to people that dont like me on the daily, i bought and buy boas from breeders i dont necessarily like too, we all do, so i dont think i have to be liked or i have to like to love a boa. those personal things dont get involved in my decision making.
2 hours ago · 2..
Martyn Pinto
Ive always felt it better to buy a male or female than to borrow one for the season just because of the trouble it can cause for either side. Hope you can resolve the problem smoothly as possible.
2 hours ago · 3..
Manny Frade
I agree Martyn, Ive done 5 total breeder loans and ALL have gone so smooth, never a problem, but the difference is all with professionals, I took a chance and now im paying the consequences. This is why few give people chances, not just in this hobby but in many facets of life. its the proverbial, no good deed goes unpunished. lesson learned for sure.
2 hours ago · 3..
Walt Finnegan
i say that at least once a day every good deed is indeed punished lol
2 hours ago via mobile · 1..
Walt Finnegan
well good luck manny i hope it gets settled soon for both parties
2 hours ago via mobile · 1..
Jeremy Leperson
Only thing I really see that was jacked up on your part was sending her a boa you both didn't agree to, but i think she forfeited her cause when she sold it. I hope the male produces viable offspring and this whole thing can be resolved. I do understand why you say you only deal with professionals, because it seems the whole thing went south when people started assuming. What is that saying..."Assumption is the mother of all...what?"
2 hours ago · Edited..
Manny Frade
Jeremy i had sent her a picture of a female and we agreed on a male, there was only 1 male in the litter.
2 hours ago · 1..
Manny Frade
only had 1 male in that litter, there were male aztec vpis, females aztec vpis, hytecs, aztecs, 1 male vpi, only 18 total babies, that was just the odds. next answer. her male was a younger male longshot, 3 total, he does like some young males do, start off great and lose steam. im hoping he does different this year. I sent her pictures of every breeding, she has them. the slugs were discarded by my cage cleaner, he notated it and as he had no knowledge of the male, or who breds what or belongs to whom. if those litters dropped how much money is anyones guess. but nothing dropped so no money was made, thats a moot point.
2 hours ago..
Martyn Pinto
im a rather trusting person and have learned many a hard lesson when it comes to lending people things over the years. Im not so quick to lend these days.
2 hours ago..
Jeremy Brunson
Manny , both of you are angry at each other. I am not here to play sides or cast blame. Just from one man to another we both know it is almost impossible to find a resolution when you are angry.
about an hour ago · 9..
Jeremy Wrede
Looks like the postings are starting to disappear into the wind...
29 minutes ago..
Manny Frade
Jeremy Wrede, if i answer your question and you dont wanna answer mine but turn it into a biased attack, with an agenda, i dont care if someone doesnt agree with me, you dont totally either, its cool- we can start another thread on that, not going to have another PD het story board that went sideways on a happy moment for someone that contributes alot here, not gonna happen.. Simple thread, define the picture...
11 minutes ago · Edited
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