OK, I'm going to try and answer the questions/accusations as best I can.
*Just as a side note, when I shipped this snake, I was 5 days post-pardum. So when it is mentioned that I just didn't respond to emails, this may make things more clear (not an excuse, just trying to give more information on my state.) The date that Toni received the snake and emailed me repeatedly (starting 6 hours after the email stating she received the snakes and was happy), I was at the doctor's office and the lab/hospital dealing with my baby's jaundice. Which is why I didn't respond to her emails immediately. And when she called me, I was exhausted already emotionally and physically. I was completely caught off guard.
*If I'm a flipper, I'm quite terrible at it, since I took a $300 + hit on this sale.
($2,000 for the het caramel glow pair which I picked up in Anaheim from BHB, and $1800 shipped for the caramel albino, which I bought from John Manser (who was also her breeder.) The total sale was for $3500 shipped.
*There were two phone calls made to me by Toni after Toni received the snakes. One on 2/19/09, and one on 2/27/09.
*I did indeed change the terms of my website. Toni never inquired as to my terms, before, during, or after. Even after I changed the terms,
I still offered to replace the snake, and I still stand by that offer.
*I would implore Toni to provide proof of any other emails sent to me other than what I've posted, as I've kept and posted EVERYTHING, including the photos that she sent (even knowing that it was possible to be torn apart for them.) I am here to tell you no such emails ever crossed my monitor. I want all the information possible out there. People will judge how they must - and that is certainly their right.
*I have only asked questions about possible things that could have happened to the snake out of my care. Could something have happened during shipping? Yes. Could something have happened in Toni's care? Yes. People may believe that something happened to the snake in my care. That is their right. I can only rely on my track record to speak for itself. I've shipped and had shipped to me literally hundreds of reptiles. Am I perfect? No. But I can safely say (for those to whom it matters) that I shipped three healthy snakes.
*In one of the first emails, I just ask the question "How am I supposed to know something didn't happen to her once she was received?" This is the only "accusation" on my part during this whole ordeal. I however have been accused of:
*sending a faulty snake
*overheating the snake
*suffocating the snake
*sending a snake with IBD out
*not caring (where does it say or imply that? *I* suggested that she take it to the vet. Because I didn't fall all over myself freaking out in emails means I don't care? I did enough freaking out, just not in email form, I assure you)
*Where does it say in my emails that I won't take responsibility and offer to make this right? Does the offer of a replacement animal not count?
*I asked her repeatedly to take the animal to the vet, to which she had many excuses why she didn't want to. When she did, I asked her to send me a vet report, which she did (albeit a month later, but no matter), and I offered to replace the snake. She stated in several emails that this was an amicable solution. Now it is apparently not.
*I would be more than happy to test and post results so that people would feel confident that my collection is IBD free. What test would people like to see me have performed, short of having one of my healthy appearing snakes euthanized and necropsied? Would blood tests be enough?
Honestly, how many of you would not ask yourself similar questions, if you were in my shoes? How many of you would just refund or replace based only on these emails (prior to the vet report)? All I was asking for was proof, plain and simple. I received it and offered replacement.