No not at all is that a recluse or even a member of loxoceles
It does look similiar but I am guessing it is a darker form of the purseweb spiders you find behind the thin veil of webbing in a corner or crease of your room, which are a cause for alarm since the bite has similiar properties to a recluse bite
though not as severe. I am drawing a blank as to the name of this family sorry.
Another note on the species distribution map, I have found loxoceles reclusa in Michigan and also hobo spiders in my very own basement so I am sure that map is VERY outdated.
The spiders in the mouth thing....take a spider and deprive it of moisture [dry season]for a week and then put a drop of water with it, It will automatically 'drink'. a wandering non web [home] building spider will do the same with ANY source of moisture such as that drop of spit dangling from the corners of your mouth when you sleep :eatpointe yummy