Dean Stemple Strictly Exotics BAD GUY!

Originally Posted by coja97

Isn't there any legal action the OP can take?

Maybe he has a friend or two among the Loyal Order of Legitimate Italian Businessmen?

Originally Posted by Focal X

Was he found guilty in that case? I'm not sure how tight you've been rationing your common sense, but I'm not here to defend him and I thought I made that obvious. I'm giving the man a chance to reply before I develop an opinion. Be narrow minded if you want.

I agree. Give the man a chance to reply. Not everbody can just get online before the drop of a dime.

I wonder if the purchase is what instigated the divorce!!

Probably not. There was a thread in Hell way back during the 2010 spring - April, May - titled "Snakes & Divorce" or something like that. Dean posted later in that thread that he and Reagan were breaking up, then she got on and posted in rebuttal to his accusations, making her own.

So .. likely this is something a long time in coming.

I don't normally read post, but this caught my attention. I just hope he's still alive and nothing horrible happen to this man. Because if he's been injured or dead.... You all may feel pretty bad for trashing this man. If he is in hiding... than he's the biggest A hole ever.

Originally Posted by LadySerpent

I don't normally read post, but this caught my attention. I just hope he's still alive and nothing horrible happen to this man. Because if he's been injured or dead.... You all may feel pretty bad for trashing this man. If he is in hiding... than he's the biggest A hole ever.

Did you read the whole thread? Maybe you missed this post...

Originally Posted by Utta

just got off the phone with dean, he said he'll respond ASAP, and that he apologies to Chris. he said he doesn't have access to internet at this moment.

It's post #26.

Originally Posted by LadySerpent

I don't normally read post, but this caught my attention. I just hope he's still alive and nothing horrible happen to this man. Because if he's been injured or dead.... You all may feel pretty bad for trashing this man. If he is in hiding... than he's the biggest A hole ever.

Seeing as how Utta spoke to him on the phone yesterday, I don't think he's dead. In fact, I would bet money that he's read this whol thread.

And I will say it again. I don't believe that he will even come here and comment. If someone was talking about me, I would have made a point to be here. In this day and age, to say you can't get on the internet is just rediculous. Not to mention, he said in another thread that his parents lived a few minutes away, and I would bet they have internet.

People say, give him a chance to respond. He hasn't been responding to the OP, that's why this is here.

Originally Posted by brd7666

People say, give him a chance to respond. He hasn't been responding to the OP, that's why this is here.

Let's give him until 5PM tomorrow. That way, all that wanted to give him notice and an opportunity to be heard in this thread will be satisfied, and we can all then speak in one voice about our dissatisfaction with what was done to Chris.
What do you think, Brian?

Originally Posted by lucille

Let's give him until 5PM tomorrow. That way, all that wanted to give him notice and an opportunity to be heard in this thread will be satisfied, and we can all then speak in one voice about our dissatisfaction with what was done to Chris.
What do you think, Brian?

I started a thread about this yesterday in Hell around 12:30 in the afternoon. I was notified by another member that they had informed Dean of that thread. So even if Dean was notified at 1:00 in the afternoon, he has had 30 hours to come on here.

There was a small time frame from when my post in Hell was removed and this one from Chris went up. I think plenty of time has gone by.

If Dean was even slightly concerned about making things right, he would have been here by now. He would have put the effort into being here.


We are all entitled to our opinions, but I think he has had more than enough time.

If Dean was even slightly concerned about making things right, he would have been here by now. He would have put the effort into being here.

Not necessarily. This is the BOI, not a court of law. He doesn't have to post here. The only person he has to reply to, to satisfy, to reimburse and apologize to is Chris. He may very well want to avoid this thread altogether, just as he's avoided Chris.
Chris is the only person who is owed anything - the fact that Dean hasn't responded here means nothing. The fact that Dean hasn't responded to Chris (since 1-14) means everything, IMO.

I say if Dean was concerned about making things right, he would have contacted Chris by now. If he was concerned about making things right, Chris would know what was going on right now and not be wondering if Dean's ripped him off.

If Dean was concerned about doing the right thing, Chris would not have had to come here in the first place.

Originally Posted by LauraB

Probably not. There was a thread in Hell way back during the 2010 spring - April, May - titled "Snakes & Divorce" or something like that. Dean posted later in that thread that he and Reagan were breaking up, then she got on and posted in rebuttal to his accusations, making her own.

So .. likely this is something a long time in coming.

Yeah...I remember that thread, but was wondering if this BIG purchase is got the papers signed.

I know if things were rough between my hubby and I, and he had a big spending spree, he'd be out the door...FAST.

In fact that is PART of what happened to my marriage.

So I know it can happen.