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Originally Posted by tlmoon
I really don't see either the OP or the seller as a bad guy or a scammer.
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Within the context of what took place in the actual transaction before this thread appeared, I could probably agree with that. However, I think the posts within this thread tell a different story. In my years here, I've noticed that the Good Guys almost universally avoid attacking one's credibility while refusing to give hard supporting evidence. Can you put yourself in the mindset of someone who truly feels his claims are righteous, yet has no interest in corroborating those claims by posting the texts/emails that he somehow just doesn't feel like going through? I know I can't.
If you feel strongly enough to level the charge, you should feel strongly enough to back it up. At this point, I can't really see his refusal as anything other than a tacit admission that he'd do nothing more than incriminate himself by making his copies available. Claiming someone is manipulating evidence is a pretty serious accusation to be throwing around without one shred of proof. If you'd honestly feel good about buying from someone who's shown such a willingness do just that, I'm really not even sure how to respond to that.
If he's willing to grossly misrepresent the details of what occurred during one transaction - and he's presented nothing tangible that would discourage such a conclusion - what makes you believe he wouldn't choose to do so again in
your dealings with him? I don't think anything is gained by sweeping this under the rug and pretending it's a wash. Since when does the BOI take someone at his word when it doesn't come close to aligning with all available evidence?