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Originally Posted by Pythonbreeder99
Ok, let me chime in here. Although I know not what this thread is related to nor who this boagirl is, but I can speak for Sierra, I have been talking to her about herps for the past few months and she asked me to jump in here because it's obvious you guys are attacking her. Sierra is 16 years old and has been keeping reptiles for about 2 or 3 years, no offence to her but she's a noob. We all were at one point and we all screwed up before we made it to where we are today. I am 18 and have been doing this since I was 6, when I signed up for the site I was about 15 and I (like her) said stuff to make myself seem older and more reputable, when you were that age you did it too. Nobody wants to buy anything from a 15 or 16 year old. Especially a higher end snake, I've seen people on this site RIP APART kids who tried to seem as reputable as someone who's been in the industry for 20+ years and it always seems like the second they mess up somebody jumps all over them then dozens of people join in. Yes Sierra messed up, yes I've messed up, and don't lie to yourselves because we've all messed up. Let bigons be bigons and continue with your fauna browsing. If anybody has had DIRECT problems with Sierra then the appropriate thing to do would be to continue the conversation between you and Sierra instead of making all of you look like children yourselves by blowing up on a very public forum, and killing this poor kids dreams. I'm sure none of you would be fond of a dozen or so people attacking you for one or two minor mistakes that were made in the past. If Sierra isn't doing anything directly to you then what makes it okay for you to take shots directly at her? That was my 2 cents.
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That is all sweet and sounds wonderful Cody but there is a few more things to consider. This is very much a business site not a playground.
Age isn't as important as maturity level. There are many minors here that conduct themselves professionally. I have done business with some and would with others.
This section is for feedback good or bad with sellers and buyers. It is risky enough doing business with anyone online. Add the facts that your dealing with a minor that you have less options when you are trying to resolve a problem, people have a right to know.
Heck, go read the first responses in this thread and the replies from this users account. I wouldn't buy from someone with that attitude no-matter age.
Your name is very important. Regardless if it was just her or her and her girlfriend, she lied several times, has little knowledge about what she/they were selling. The public has a right to know this things. It's not about just attacking someone as you suggest.
That is just big pile of crap. It's not about killing some kids dreams (also garbage) or just two minor mistakes. It really isn't about her either.
Its about Jane or John Doe putting forth their hard earned money and buying what they paid for. That's why this site began in the first place.
This seller has had attitude, lied, been disrespectful to peers, potential buyers, sellers and to this site that she wishes to use.
To tell people to quietly address any problems and not post does nothing for this community. If problems can't be resolved then it needs to be posted.
This all happened in the last what 7, 8 months? Sure she is young, new and the person who typed many of the posts under this account lacks
a lot of maturity. She can improve her standing if she wishes. Many have done it right here. Admit the mistakes, learn, be honest and don't sell anything that you don't know about.
Nobody is here to crush kids dreams but the buying public also has a right to know who they are dealing with particularly if something goes wrong.
Right? Don't I and everyone else?
I hope she succeeds if she wants to stick around. It's good for all of us.
You are right. We were all young and all of us made mistakes. If you learn from them and improve then you can move on. I wish her good luck.
She's young a new and made some mistakes. True. She also acted immaturely and lied.
If she's honest , shows maturity and learns, she will have no problems here.
Just look at the so called admittance to a lie " I admit I lied ,
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going to hold this over my head, right"
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Still immature. It's not the only lie here and instead of saying sorry and working on gaining respect, went right to victim status for being caught telling falsehoods.
She wins by doing better. Telling people just to shut up because she is a kid does her no good.