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View Poll Results: It's the end of the evening on your first date. What do YOU expect? (More than 1 OK)
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I give a nice hug and say good night.
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5 |
14.29% |
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Depends on how the date went, I might invite them for coffee
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6 |
17.14% |
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I expect that they come around, open the car door, escort me to my door and say good night.
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2 |
5.71% |
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If there is 'chemistry' I expect a first hot kiss
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10 |
28.57% |
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I expect the person to PUT OUT
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5 |
14.29% |
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Especially if I paid for dinner, etc.
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1 |
2.86% |
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I'm usually there until morning.....
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4 |
11.43% |
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I expect an invitation for a second date
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8 |
22.86% |
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What date? It was paid for, she got what she wanted and I did too
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1 |
2.86% |
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If the person is nice, I can stand at the door and talk for hours....
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11 |
31.43% |
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That she won't tell on me, lol...
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0% |
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I expect him to be a gentleman and give me one sweet gentle kiss
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2 |
5.71% |
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If they were not what I expected, I still expect a nice evening and good manners
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7 |
20.00% |
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I expect them not to pass out on the front steps
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4 |
11.43% |
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I play it as it goes, I have no preordained expectations
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24 |
68.57% |
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02-01-2005, 07:52 AM
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#1
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Hanky Panky
OK, we haven't had a good, fun Lonely Hearts poll in a while. This one explores first dates, and that awkward moment when the two of you say 'Good night'...... 
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02-01-2005, 08:50 AM
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#2
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My wife and I said "good morning" on our first date....LOL...
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02-01-2005, 01:24 PM
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#3
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Since I was a teenager, I practiced the "Gene Simmons" approach to dating. As I've gotten older, it takes alot more stimulus to ring my bell. Getting laid is easy. I can't say I know of anyone who doesn't like sex. If I ask someone to go out it's because I really like them and want to get to know them better. If the date goes well, and if "the great voyage around the world" comes up, i'll get tickets. If the date goes well and it doesn't happen, that's ok too. If the date doesn't go well (for me) and the subject comes up anyway...it's evaluated on a case by case basis (L). Sleeping w/ someone who likes you when you don't like them isn't a very nice thing to do. If the date doesnt go well for either...I don't expect anything except a mutual understanding that it probably wasn't meant to be. 
It just depends on what's on our minds when it's getting close to saying, "Goodnight", but we all know that "Hanky Panky" is on everyone's mind. It's natural. It's in the minds of the masses lol.
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02-01-2005, 09:04 PM
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#4
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Originally Posted by SPZOOLOGICAL
Since I was a teenager, I practiced the "Gene Simmons" approach to dating. As I've gotten older, it takes alot more stimulus to ring my bell. Getting laid is easy. I can't say I know of anyone who doesn't like sex. If I ask someone to go out it's because I really like them and want to get to know them better. If the date goes well, and if "the great voyage around the world" comes up, i'll get tickets. If the date goes well and it doesn't happen, that's ok too. If the date doesn't go well (for me) and the subject comes up anyway...it's evaluated on a case by case basis (L). Sleeping w/ someone who likes you when you don't like them isn't a very nice thing to do. If the date doesnt go well for either...I don't expect anything except a mutual understanding that it probably wasn't meant to be.
It just depends on what's on our minds when it's getting close to saying, "Goodnight", but we all know that "Hanky Panky" is on everyone's mind. It's natural. It's in the minds of the masses lol. |
Ok where do I start with this one.. Many of the same views EXCEPT sleeping with someone you don't like when they seemingly like you. Granted you get stalkers such as I did, but damn sex is sex for the love of god. Why do women have to view it is some step in a commited relationship?? And what is the big deal about getting caught screwing a chicks friend for that matter? If she wasn't wanting it it would have never happened...... Right???? So why get bent over a small infraction like that? At least it wsn't a sister(this time)....
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02-02-2005, 11:09 PM
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For that matter, Brian, why do some guys seem to take it as an acceptance of a marriage proposal? Gal I knew slept with this one guy, just once, and next thing she knew not only was he stalking her but telling everyone he knew they were engaged! I'll definitely PASS on the set-up attempt for that particular nutcase.
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02-03-2005, 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted by BallPyFan
For that matter, Brian, why do some guys seem to take it as an acceptance of a marriage proposal? Gal I knew slept with this one guy, just once, and next thing she knew not only was he stalking her but telling everyone he knew they were engaged! I'll definitely PASS on the set-up attempt for that particular nutcase.
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If a man has sex w/ a woman and determines it to be an engagement. IT IS! Nope. No, 2 ways about it. It's a "Man's World", Katrina. IF "we" can live by these laws....so can you
Ah ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! Ahha ha haha ha ha (I'm detecting flames already)
Sean
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02-03-2005, 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted by BallPyFan
For that matter, Brian, why do some guys seem to take it as an acceptance of a marriage proposal? Gal I knew slept with this one guy, just once, and next thing she knew not only was he stalking her but telling everyone he knew they were engaged! I'll definitely PASS on the set-up attempt for that particular nutcase.
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Trust me I don't feel that way and never have. I got married because "settled" for less than I should have and was getting tired of the club and party scene. Didn't work out and I highly doubt I would ever do it again. And if I do that "Stuff" better be damn gold plated and diamond encrusted. 
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02-03-2005, 08:45 PM
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Yeah, the worst part was she tried to pawn him off on ME  Yeah like that half-brained nutcase kid would survive LOL. Sean, I would beat ya for those remarks but I can tell you would enjoy it WAYYY too much 
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02-03-2005, 08:53 PM
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Originally Posted by SPZOOLOGICAL
If a man has sex w/ a woman and determines it to be an engagement. IT IS! Nope. No, 2 ways about it. It's a "Man's World", Katrina. IF "we" can live by these laws....so can you
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the only stalkers I've had have been the ones that I refused to sleep with! But I sure have a long string of broken engagements then. *shrug* where are the rings???? I want some precious stones, cheapskates!
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02-03-2005, 10:05 PM
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Katrina,
Probably,
Sean
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