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Originally Posted by vodkadreamzzz
There is a saying theres no "free lunch"
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There is also a saying that goes something like: "a friend will dance with a friend in the sunshine and walk with them in the shadows".
It seems according to a few here that you two gals were the greatest of friends. There has to be something good remaining in each of your memories about each other, no?
It is impossible that this one wrong deed, regardless of who is to blame, could wipe all those good things and those good times and memories away.
Why choose to live with a single bad memory and throw away all the good memories? You both know your limitations now, more about each other than you did in the past. And by forgiving you may each give yourself a great opportunity to make some magnificent memories as friends you wouldn't possibly think of attaining.
Or maybe it is possible, possible that you gals were never really good friends, and the only actual people who truly were deceived are those who have continued to stand by and support you both with their friendships. That's not really saying good things to them about each of you gals as individuals. You probably each stand to lose more friends if you don't put this behind you and to rest.
Start caring more about your friends who are caught in the middle and less about yourselves. Its selfish and its immature. Your are both grown women, aren't ya's? You've both had ups and downs? You both think Chuck Kimmel is the most beautiful person and greatest lover in the world? - I just tossed that in there.
You've both had time to vent here and other places I'm sure. Its just money,
money.
Call each other and apologize at the same time and go forward. Best to you both.