Hey everyone, Jason Here,
If I may, I just wanted to say a few more things concerning this matter and I don't anticipate that everyone will agree with me, but I hope you will at least consider this for a moment and if not for Alex, then do it for me. I can personally say that when I began working with herps I was too was eighteen years old. I was extremely excited about the herp profession and even more excited to begin the Journey of becoming a herp veterinarian, which is around the time I first met SoLa. Even he can tell you it has been quite the adventure. As an excited young man with the initiative of an 18 year old I felt ready to take on the world however, it is more than fair to say that only being 18 years old meant that I did not have all the answers, nor did I have the experience that our society would require to make all of the appropriate decisions in every circumstance that life would toss my way. We all make mistakes and ironically it is the most severe mistakes that I feel we can learn the hardest lessons form. I think we can all agree on this. Let us not forget that an 18 year old man is still a teenager. This is definitely the age at which we begin assuming responsibility for our actions however, lets be fair in that how many of us were really pro's at being adults when we were 18 years old? Lets see a show of hands. I sure as hell wasn't. Honestly 10 years later and I'm still struggling to improve upon this. Being a teenager is the only time in our lives when we are allowed the opportunity to make mistakes at the forefront of adulthood without the severe recourse of society and I truly believe that our society owes us this opportunity as growing individuals. Being a teenager is the one chance that we all share as an opportunity that enables us to tailor the decisions we make as adults with some cushion behind us, so the world abroad doesn't eat us alive when the time comes.
Lets also consider that speaking against your boss, let alone speaking against a superior who is an adult in charge of the money you make is not a quality that every 18 year old has developed by the time they reach their late teenage years. For that matter, some adults in their late 40's and 50's even struggle with this task especially in the face of today's economy. For all we know Alex may be the only income his family currently has and I do not feel it is not our right to question how he manages that situation, nor do I feel it is relevant for the sake of arguments posed in this thread. I too am in a very similar position with my family. Furthermore, I don't think that a single person who has read this thread would volunteer themselves into the position that Alex has assumed. He is just an employee. He didn't have to assume this position and yet he has. I don't suspect he has done this because he enjoys it, but rather because he feels in some level of responsibility for what has happened and I feel wish's he could do something to help. This is a very uncomfortable position for any 18 year old to be in and yet he has taken this whole situation in stride and has done so like a man. Yeah he's tripped up on a few things he said, but honestly look at what he is up against here. I couldn't have done what he's doing at his age.
Alex is the only representative from Touch of Class that we have shared the opportunity of speaking with. I don't know if he is Kelvins interpreter, or why communications with Kelvin have been so scarce, but what I do know is that for the last 4-5 days Alex has been baring the weight of the herp world for Kelvin, not with him at his side and it is no secret that the herp community can be an extremely tough crowd.
In addition I have done a fair amount of international travel and in fact I spent the last 3 years of my veterinary education living amongst the people of a borderline 3rd world country and let me say this to all of you, we we as America'ns assume freedoms that other countries and ethnicity's do not share the luxury of. They can only dream of what we have. We are extremely lucky and the American way simply is not the only way. It is wrong for us to assume that at any point in time. We have a lot of power in this country of ours so lets use it for the right purpose and not to exclude those who are less fortunate than us. We take far too much for granted in this great country of ours and I do mean GREAT!!!! We are truly blessed! Even our homeless have it made when compared to the poverty that extends into other countries and we do not have the right to suggest that any individual deserves exclusion from this great country that we have created as a safe-haven for freedom.
With that said I think Alex has done one hell of a job here. He has represented the company for which he works, despite the obvious fact that it does not benefit in his own personal interests. Even still he didn't simply run away when things grew hot, despite that it would have suited him best. Alex manned up in many ways that Kelvin failed to show face and gained nothing for himself. From an employers standpoint Alex has exhibited outstanding personal character.
There is no doubt that Alex would benefit from some additional experience and training (no offense Alex), but before we execute him (as a metaphor) I feel we owe this 18 year old young man the opportunity to improve. I heavily commend Alex on the manner in which he has handled this situation for Kelvin and he did so without Kelvins assistance. Had it not been for Alex and his efforts, I don't think that I would even have received the potential for a refund, regardless of whether or not the money is there. I base this solely on my communications with Kelvin relative to my conversations with Alex. I feel that Alex facilitated all of this by himself and that is a huge responsibility for an 18 year old to endure. It is unfortunate that this unfolded the way it did and I will not go back on any part of what I said previously in this thread, but as I stated in other related posts, sometimes good people do get caught in the crossfire of bad business between two unrelated individuals. At the end of the day Kelvin is the business owner. Alex is not Kelvin's whipping boy and he does not deserve the retribution directed at Kelvins mistakes. Alex is still learning here and I think he has learned a very keen lesson from all of this, I have no doubt.
Alex I commend you. I think you would definitely benefit from a strong mentor, but when it comes to your level experience, the rest will come in time. I recommend to you that you find yourself a reputable mentor who is not self proclaimed and try to choose someone who's reputation proceeds them. Do that and you will go very far in this profession. You have all the qualities of a good employee and you have what it taked to be an honest and reputable herpetoculturist, despite my feelings that you benefit from some more appropriate guidance given your age and current level of experience. Regardless, the night is still young and those opportunities do wait for you. I heavily encourage you to continue with this career and I don't want you to become discouraged by what has happened here in the last few days. I feel you did your very best given the situation that you were dealt and I personally want to thank you, as my conversations with you have been far more constructive than those I have shared with Kelvin at any point in time.
Alex I want you to know that despite what has happened here on fauna, if you ever have any questions regarding herps, herpetoculture or veterinary health care please feel free to contact me as I would be more than happy to extend my personal attention in addressing your inquiries as I feel this will be an important resource for you to have available as a growing herpetoculturist. Please don't hesitate to contact me at any time. My personal email is
[email protected]. I certainly wish you the best of luck in all of your endeavors and again, I thank you.