Just for the record - depending on the context of the conversation, and how/where it occurs, telling a woman she's attractive is not necessarily cheating. I can look at a woman (or a picture of one), think - and/or say - OMFG, SHE'S HOT!!!!, then go about my day without an inappropriate thought. Same goes for a long glance at nicely displayed cleavage - I can enjoy it for what it is, without it impacting my relationship in the slightest. Occasionally letting the mind wander to a sexual fantasy isn't necessarily a bad thing, either...even if it involves your best friend or sister, lol...but those things should be kept secret, and not obsessed upon.
(now, all that said, I'll acknowledge that some men have no self control; and can barely look at - let alone speak with - a woman without turning to thoughts of how to get her naked, and what will happen once she is.)
Good luck finding what you seek....no offense, but you might want to fix the spelling errors