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Originally Posted by Mistyck
You are out of your damn mind. You start an account on this forum to just gripe and moan about what one person posts on this topic? GROW UP! Yes it was wrong for them to violate her, and she was stupid to put herself in that position by drinking that much.
ROOT of this MESS being that she should have never put herself in that type of situation, and then to get so drunk that she could get taken advantage of. She should have known better. Now on to the violators, YES they took advantage of the victim, and YES they should have known better as well. They should have NEVER violated her, and taken advantage of her the way that they did. PERIOD.
Now just because you want to piss and moan about the way that Wes is explaining his OPINION, that makes him a bad guy...WTFE. If you can't see what he's saying without the DRAMA that you're choosing to bring into this thread, then that's your problem. I can clearly see what point he is making, and NO he is not VICTIM BLAMING. Now if that's as far as you can see then you are not seeing past the end of your nose.
Harald gets what Wes is saying, and I do as well. It's your problem if you want to take things the opposite way of the way they were stated and misconstrue what was typed to put your own opinion out there.
BTW, no one said you were stupid, he clearly just stated that he was glad someone was smart enough to understand what he typed out. WHERE in that statement does it say, "Sarah is stupid, and you're smart Harald"?  |
No, I did not start an account here just to educate ignorant people who blame victims like yourselves, but when I see it happening over and over again, I'm disgusted. I started an account to find some cool animals, and I find another place for men to blame women for the brutal acts committed against them.
YOU SAY YOU ARE NOT VICTIM BLAMING. THEN YOU SAY "Both parties (victim and violators) are in the wrong in this situation." Are you truly that stupid? That you can't comprehend that saying "the victim is wrong" is placing blame?
And sweetie, I know that there are bad people in the world, and we need to protect ourselves. The sad thing is that when it comes to rape, it's not about teaching BOYS NOT TO RAPE, IT'S ABOUT TEACHING GIRLS HOW TO PROTECT THEMSELVES. You're saying that men cannot control themselves. They don't have compassion or rational thought. It's up to women to keep themselves safe. Men are dangerous animals. I'm not surprised you don't understand why this is wrong.
No matter how you try to say you aren't blaming her, you are. You're willfully ignorant, and that's a sad thing.
Lemme show you an example if what is and is not victim blaming.
Those boys shouldn't have raped her. -Not victim blaming.
Those boys shouldn't have raped her, but she was drunk. -VICTIM BLAMING
You guys keep adding a "but". VICTIM BLAMING.
A WOMAN WHO IS RAPED IS NEVER WRONG. SHE CAN WEAR WHAT SHE WANTS. DRINK WHAT SHE WANTS. BE ALONE ALL SHE WANTS. It is not her fault that a man chooses to rape her.
I'm done with this thread. Have fun patting each other on the backs, basking in rape culture, and being no more enlightened than you were a few days ago.