Here is that fb link Melinda mentioned
https://www.facebook.com/groups/366516933388132/
Drama every where! lol. Just about every group has elitist's in it. I just filter them. WOW, Having easy access to licensed contractor and electrician makes a world of difference. No.1 thing is to enjoy the planning and building. Don't let it become a chore. I have a 110 year old home. I re did the front porch by myself. 9ft x 28ft with roof. I think one day I got flustered and I just stopped and put tools away. Next day I went out and problem was actually easy to fix. Probably my most satisfying project I ever did.