Totally agree Shawn and for me it's just easier to get in the car and drive about 10 minutes to meet at a neutral place
It's even difficult for my own family to locate my house and they've been here quite a few times... there are so many turns and it's in the woods so I can say we are pretty protected. If my neighbors see a strange car in the neighborhood they are usually warry!! I guess it's good to live in a close nit community where everyone keeps and eye on everyone else