Reaping what you sow

I think on this site, and probably everywhere, one reaps what one sows. This site is home to many, from newbies to those with a lifetime of experience.
Sometimes newbies come to the BOI, not knowing what to expect, and not knowing exactly how to say what they've come to discuss.

If people visit the BOI or anywhere on this site, I've seen them treated gentle like a kitten, as they try to explain their issues from business to husbandry. I've seen people jump in with instructions and explanations about how to post pictures, and give those who are honestly trying to get a point across all kinds of help.

Sometimes there are those who see that this site is by and large a courteous place who feel they have a right to play tough guy. I suppose they think that their misbehaviors will be met with an indulgent chuckle, and they can behave pretty much as they wish.


I think there are very capable people here who can be gentle and kind. In fact, it seems to me that often the more powerful people are, the more courteous they may be, because they don't have anything to prove. There are many here who come here because they want to share the benefits of their knowledge and experience in everything from reptile keeping to business strategy. But for those who act a fool and start calling names and trying to hurt people: You think you are going to be treated gentle like a kitten? No, dawg. You live by the sword, dawg, you gonna die by the sword. (Which can still be done with courtesy).

You reap what you sow.