Parenting. Oh my goodness. This is one of the most difficult things I've ever done.
Of course I sorta did it backwards.
I became a part time mom in Jun of 2001 when I got married. But with hubby and I being teachers, part time parenting was easy.... when the kids were with us, we were always on vacation, so they got 24/7 attention. We never had to worry what they were doing with so-and-so.
Then in June of this year, my husband's middle child chose to come and live with us instead of her mother. So as of that point in time, I was the mother of a beautiful 13-year-old going on 14, starting as a freshman at the high school where both her father and I work. There are no manuals on how to be a good parent, at least no tried and true ones. We always want to know where she is, we worry, we keep track.
Today, I learned that perhaps she is smoking.
(which would include a number of lies she would have HAD to have told her father and I).
ARGH. It's just NOT EASY
Thank you for letting me vent.