* SEX *

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Its sad to say, but i've jumped into the sack more times than i like to admit. For a long time i felt that it was all i was good for and really, it was the only way to keep a guys attention.

Now though, if he wants to get intimate, he'll have to earn it. Theres got to be some commitment there first so if we have an OOPS he doesn't go running for the door.

When your looking for a life time relationship, sex isn't what one should base it on. Granted its wonderful and all but theres got to be something more, friendship, good communication and just liking eachother to hold things together when the road gets bumpy.

Theres a term that the girls use at work- FTF - friends that ****

That aspect is exciting to me, having someone around to help relieve those desires/tension with no expectations. But seeing as i'm looking for a LTR it wouldnt' serve my purpose. And i'm not ready to be a single mom. Plus theres more to me that just that. I'm a very intellectual person so i'd like to think i can have a diverse and stimulating conversation. I'm also very much a kid at heart, so i like to act silly and watch cartoons every now and then.

I'm a packaged deal, if he wants one part he'll have to want the rest too
Red

I think you can guess how I voted.....

but yet you wonder why you have ladies slashing those tires still ???lol

There is a huge range in the decision of when to have sex, from a gentle feminine gift to her beloved after long acquaintance to lusty cocksmen who take it everywhere they can get it.

Is it just me or does that statement seem a little gender biased?

lusty cocksmen

freudian slip?
a rooster and man in the same word/phrase LMAO
what does that mean anyways?

Originally posted by JungleHabitats
but yet you wonder why you have ladies slashing those tires still ???lol

Not after I got the restraining order.....

Also I am a bit more security minded now. I have always had an alarm system in any home I have lived in but now I have ventured into CCTV and it does wonders with evidence for the police.

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Originally posted by Stardust
Gee, I have two restraining orders out, really stinks when you have to go to court just to get a guy to leave you alone!!!!

Well I hope they do indeed leave you alone. It is a sad sad world we live in when nutcases run around making our lives uncomfortable.

I'll abstain from voting on this poll because I can't find the in between selection. LOL! While, I don't sleep around, I have had a couple of first dates that started off with a bang.

Brian...you just gotta stop being so good so these ladies will leave you alone without a restraining order.