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View Poll Results: So who are you? Vote is not public
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11-12-2007, 12:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Jim O
Bob, I love ya man but can you enlighten us as to which sins or behaviors you may be referring? You opened the door on this one.
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Nope, not particularly, as I wasn't really commenting about one specific thing. Rather, I was responding to the whole "acceptance" portion of the discussion. It's easy for someone to simply take the stance that we should simply "accept" everyone. I may allow someone into my life but if they have a behavior that I disagree with then I will call them to task.
People believe that we are not suppose to judge others. Whether you hold the typical Christian values or simply your own personal high standards, judging others and holding them accountable for thier actions is truly showing that you accept "them."
By allowing someone to wander down the path of self-destruction, simply because you're afraid of judging someone, shows not acceptance or love, for that matter, to the person to whom you're suppose to accept.
Don't get me wrong though. I will do my very best to never judge someone over an issue that I myself am struggling with. To do so would be the epitomy of hypocrisy. But, if I no longer struggle with that "sin" or "issue" then I will hold them accountable, if for no other reason then the simple fact that I accept them and want better for them.
Griz
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11-12-2007, 06:02 AM
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Yeah, but you never said if you were straight or gay. Neither did Richie for that matter. But the comment below sure does leave some room for self interpretation. 
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Originally Posted by Griz
Don't get me wrong though. I will do my very best to never judge someone over an issue that I myself am struggling with. To do so would be the epitomy of hypocrisy. Griz
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 I couldn't resist.
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11-12-2007, 08:19 AM
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That's because I don't let my sexuality define me. We see too many people that wear their sexuality as a badge of honor and it IS what they see themselves as. I am Robert Woodard, father of 4, lover to my beautiful bride and hopefully a good person who will make a difference in the lives of those I touch. Whether I am straight, gay or indifferent is really irrelevant to who I am.
Griz
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11-12-2007, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted by Griz
That's because I don't let my sexuality define me. We see too many people that wear their sexuality as a badge of honor and it IS what they see themselves as. I am Robert Woodard, father of 4, lover to my beautiful bride and hopefully a good person who will make a difference in the lives of those I touch. Whether I am straight, gay or indifferent is really irrelevant to who I am.
Griz
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I just wanna give you a big hug..
you rock
^_^
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11-12-2007, 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Griz
By allowing someone to wander down the path of self-destruction, simply because you're afraid of judging someone, shows not acceptance or love, for that matter, to the person to whom you're suppose to accept.
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I knew that I loved you for a reason.
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11-12-2007, 03:40 PM
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I'm getting all warm and cuddly now! Thanks guys! 
Griz
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11-12-2007, 03:50 PM
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The Man Love in this thread is just....... tear jerking.
I LOVE YOU GUYS!!
Lets all hold hands and sing Kumbaya.
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11-12-2007, 04:36 PM
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my lord, kumbaya.....everyone now..... 
Griz
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11-12-2007, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted by shrap
The Man Love in this thread is just....... tear jerking.
I LOVE YOU GUYS!!
Lets all hold hands and sing Kumbaya.
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How does that go? 
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