Just to prove a point, I just got the following email, along with my reply back to this person:
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I am extremely sorry that I could not bend over backwards to help you. Did you buy those snakes from me? If not, why to you believe I owed you any answer, even if I had the time? The answers to your questions would have taken a LOT more time than my reply, or were you expecting a reply so simple that it WOULD have been shorter?
So please explain to me exactly why it is that I owed you any information at all. I'm really curious.
Thanks for the kind words and encouragement.
Rich Zuchowski
LISA WOODWARD wrote:
OBVIOUSLY YOU HAD TIME TO TYPE THIS MESSAGE BUT NOT ENOUGH TIME TO ANSWER THE MAIN QUESTION THANKS FOR ALL YOUR HELP I FOUND SOMEONE ELSE WHO CAN TAKE THE TIME TO ANSWER ME!!!!
>From: Rich Zuchowski <rich@serpenco.com>
>To: WOODWARDLISA <EMAIL ADDRESS REMOVED>
>Subject: Re: first year breeding
>Date: Mon, 25 Mar 2002 22<img src="http://www.faunaclassifieds.com/iB_html/non-cgi/emoticons/wow.gif" border="0" valign="absmiddle" alt=':0'>2:33 -0500
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>WOODWARDLISA wrote:
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> > I have some corn snakes that I put together and they had eggs. This is
> > my first time breeding them and I do not really know what to do with
> > the eggs. I have some friends that told me to put them in some
> > fermiculite and put them in a warm place with lots of moisture. Is
> > there anything else that I should know about taking care of the eggs?
> > I don't know if they will turn out this is my first time doing this.
> > Please let me know if there are any other things I should
> > know. Thank
> > You Lisa
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>Lisa,
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>Unfortunately this is just a very busy time of year for me. I have set
>up a message board system at
http://www.cornsnakes.com/forums where you
>would likely get some answers to your questions.
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>Sorry I can't be of more help, but right now I am swamped.....
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>--
>Rich Zuchowski
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So here she asks me a multi-level question, with a followup to chime in with any other tips I could provide, that would have taken a good bit of time to explain fully. I tried to direct her to the cornsnake forum I set up where just this very topic had been addressed recently. But did she take my advice? Of course not! She would rather blast me because I didn't take the time to give her a personal answer and cater to her. She needed the information spoon fed to her and since I wasn't willing to wield the spoon, she gets peeved at me.
So let me ask something that has been bugging me lately. Why is it that people whom have bought their snakes from any number of other sources believe that everyone else is REQUIRED to help them when they need it? Go buy a Chevrolet and then call the Ford factory for help with a problem you are having with your new car. Or buy a Dell computer and call Gateway for help. What kind of responses do you think you will get?
Granted, when we have time, most of us will be our best to help, but I'm seeing more and more instances where people not only EXPECT your help, but will slam you if you do not. They act like everyone OWES them their time and efforts just because of a similar interest.
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