In your dreams

I have dreams mostly about sex. I often have recurring dreams of a house I've never seen before in my life. ever since I was a child in fact. I dream about people I have a crush on, or if I've been playing too much of a particular video game I'll be guaranteed to dream about that. Like Sims2 for instance lol. I DO dream about a guy I never got over sometimes also. Sometimes my dreams are weird and movie-like with color and people I've never seen or met before.

i never dream about sex. which is sad...cant get any in real life, cant even dream about it. one would think that i would dream about it because i think and fantasize about it all day. and all the girls that i meet fantasize about having sex all the time too.....just not with me.

Originally Posted by handsomeRob

i never dream about sex. which is sad...cant get any in real life, cant even dream about it. one would think that i would dream about it because i think and fantasize about it all day. and all the girls that i meet fantasize about having sex all the time too.....just not with me.

You know, if you are talking about sexual fantasies with women and you aren't having sex with them you just might not be reading the signals right. If I have a guy in my face and I'm talking about sex with him chances are it's because I am interested in having sex with him. If I make it known that I am interested but am subtle about it for fear of rejection, and he doesn't respond I just figure he isn't interested. Well....I used to. Then I got smart and decided if someone I desired was right there I was going to make it perfectly clear what I wanted. There are quite a few men who are offended by an aggressive woman, but so what. The worst they can do is say no.

I don't dream about sex often. I really like sex dreams, but most of my dreams are about just talking with other people.

Originally Posted by kiote9

If I make it known that I am interested but am subtle about it for fear of rejection, and he doesn't respond I just figure he isn't interested. Well....I used to. Then I got smart and decided if someone I desired was right there I was going to make it perfectly clear what I wanted. There are quite a few men who are offended by an aggressive woman, but so what. The worst they can do is say no. I don't dream about sex often. I really like sex dreams, but most of my dreams are about just talking with other people.

I used to be like that too, always to concerned with rejection that i'd never show my interest, at least not directly. Now i'm upfront and quite clear about what i want. I just went through the rejection thing with a guy i really liked but its not that big a deal. He's not interested in me that way (no relationship, just sex) thats fine, his loss. As for dreaming........i've been reliving an evening out with the above mentioned guy where we were in his car having a *good Time* by some train tracks. Needless to say the engineer got an eye full as he went by (slow moving train by the way) and was happy to honk the train horn to let us know he was able to see us. Its not one of my proudest moments but it was fun........hehehe.

that reminds me of the time about 6 months ago that i was at a local bar. this really gorgeous girl comes up to me and says "im really needing to find a guy tonight. ive not had sex in 3 months." i said, "well ive not had sex in over a year." her reply? "sucks to be you." then she got up and walked away. usually on nights that stuff happens i just end up going home alone voluntarily because im so pissed off at the entire female gender.

Originally Posted by handsomeRob

that reminds me of the time about 6 months ago that i was at a local bar. this really gorgeous girl comes up to me and says "im really needing to find a guy tonight. ive not had sex in 3 months." i said, "well ive not had sex in over a year." her reply? "sucks to be you." then she got up and walked away. usually on nights that stuff happens i just end up going home alone voluntarily because im so pissed off at the entire female gender.

Wow, that is just so incredibly wrong! I mean in an unforgivable and horrible way. I don't understand anyone being that cruel to someone they don't even know. It seems that some people live to be mean to other people.

I wish I had more time for sex. The kid thing. I love my children and for the next few years they still have most of my time and attention. It's very hard because I miss having someone to be close to, spend some quality sack time, talk, share a few things. I know when the boys get older I'll have more time for that, but I'm lonely (and horny) now. The choices we make in life...sigh...

"You know, if you are talking about sexual fantasies with women and you aren't having sex with them you just might not be reading the signals right."

actually, the signals in this town are very clear. "hey my husband is on deployment, wanna go have sex?"

LOL you said it perfectly Rob. I'm in San Diego, CA. right now stationed with my husband in Coronado NAB, and you wouldn't believe the females that do EXACTLY that! It's pathetic & the guys are just the same.

oh i know all too well about that. my wife said that alot while i was on deployments, and its also why i dont have sex. all the women here are married to someone in the military.


btw, PLEASE tell me that im not the only one that has 'dokken' songs pop into their head each time upon entering this forum topic.

Originally Posted by Python Lara

LOL you said it perfectly Rob. I'm in San Diego, CA. right now stationed with my husband in Coronado NAB, and you wouldn't believe the females that do EXACTLY that! It's pathetic & the guys are just the same.

You could tell when one group returned and one departed because all of the of the faces of the women in the enlisted club changed...........Guess some things will never change.