Gary O said:
Rich that I think will take care of that end but be ready for that one person that will make your life hell for stuff posted here about them and they have to pay to defend themselves or just let people slander their names. That is kinda putting them in a corner saying pay the money or let them slander you........
Hmm, either I am not writing what I thought I did, or you are not reading what I thought I wrote. Didn't I say that anyone with a bad guy post made against them will be offered a 1 month free access account to the BOI to defend themselves?
And let's face it. If someone is not going to pay the $10 in order to do so, are they really going to be willing to fork over several thousand dollars to retain an attorney to pursue it that way? I can see that now when the attorney says to the possible client, "Let me get this straight, Mr X, you say you want to retain my services to go after a webmaster that wants to charge you $10 to be able to defend yourself on his site? And you refuse to spend that money to do so? Hmmmm..." :laugh:
Gary O said:
But that aside.
You are in a tough spot. You say you care to much to allow a new admin or more mods on to help you. But then also say if this fails you do not care becuase you tried. Have you thought about taking on a partner?
Last time I did that was with James Thornton. Remember that fiasco? NEVER again......
Gary O said:
I have looked at this every which way and I just do not see this as good. I know you are not gonna want to here this but you will see the point.
Someone brought up KS and there ads and you said did they allow free classifieds in the past. I believe so. But the key is the forums part is free. They charge for ads and classifieds and make a pretty penny doing it lol.
I believe if even KS started to charge for the forum part it would knock them down pretty hard.
But most of the forums here would still be free. Is it just that I am not saying this correctly? Have I had that stroke already and don't even know it??
Gary O said:
You have something that is usefull. YOu say the main reason for charging is your time and money. And that if this does not work then it is over. Well Take on a partner. Who knows, just maybe someone would be willing.
Nope. Partnerships are an accident waiting to happen. Even people that get married can't agree for long and wind up hating each other's guts in many instances. No, that just is not going to happen here. There is no scenario I can envision where that would work out.
Gary O said:
I was asked once (not by you) why I do not donate to Fauna to make my site grow. I was like My money goes into my site I have bills just like Fauna. It just does not make sense. This was not posted here but posted publicly on TRR. I am not sure what other forums something like this has been posted on but maybe that is why a few think you are begging. I read the other thread and seen people say you were begging lol. I have never seen "you" beg for money for fauna. This is just an FYI.
Nope, I am not begging at all. I am laying the cards on the table. It's either a winning hand or it isn't. I would hate to think I wasted the last 4 years of time, effort and money on this site, but if it proves that I have, then it would be foolish for me to continue along the same route, now wouldn't it? What other future is out there? No matter when I would bring this subject up, I am sure I would hear the same arguments that I am now. So what purpose is served by continuing along with the status quo?
Gary O said:
Bro you have to sit down and think about this yourself. Stop reading this stuff. And just go with what you choose. If it does not go well then ok if it does ok. But these threads may be hurting things now. If you know what I mean.
Oh I have thought about this for a long time. Although I never suspected I would have this many registered members or be facing the day when even the fastest and biggest server that I can get may not be enough in the near future, I certainly did not think that this site would not bring at least something in return for my efforts. Back when I was paying a simple $35 per month to host this site, it was easy to think I could do this forever and just keep running it out of my own pocket. Once I found that I had to have my own leased server, things stopped being anywhere near the fun it used to be.
As far as these threads hurting things now, maybe. But that's the way I do things. I explain what is on my mind, my reasons for thinking what I am thinking, and ask for input to evaluate and come up with what seems to be the best solution for all involved. One minor difference this time, is that I am putting myself closer to the top of the consideration totem pole. It's time for me to put some thought about what is good for me for a change.
Or is that consideration reserved for everyone else BUT me?