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This Poll is for Women Only

How far do you go to get ready for a date?

  • I spend the entire day in curlers, go get my nails done, and buy a new outfit

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I pick out something nice from my closet, then an hour ahead of time I will shower and put on makeup

    Votes: 18 52.9%

  • Most of my dates are after work so I already look nice

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • I'm casual, I wear jeans and a t shirt on most dates

    Votes: 9 26.5%

  • I'll sjave if I figure I'll be taking off my clothes later that evening

    Votes: 3 8.8%

  • I don't bother to dress, I meet him at the door wearing just lipstick

    Votes: 4 11.8%
  • Total voters
    34
I'm really casual. I don't wear make up, except for my driver's license picture every 5 years! LOL!!

About all I do for a date is pin up my long hair and add more jewelry before I go out. ;)
 
It totally depends on what we are going to be doing on the date. I'll get all fussed up if its an out to dinner date, but i don't usually go overboard. I'm not a dress woman so when they do see me in a dress its because i've known them for a while LOL.

I like the casual dates where i can be more of myself. I don't want them to get a false sence of who i am. Like it or lump it i'll be the way i want to be, comfortable and ME.

Red :)

P.S. I always shower and put on some makeup. hehehe
 
i must admit i am the one who clicked this one

I don't bother to dress, I meet him at the door wearing just lipstick
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but i am married and have limited time and rarely have time for a "date" LOL i dont use the the lipstick (im not much a makeup wearer) however i will open the door in my flip flops (same reef ones as the other jeans thread) LOL
 
OH YAY TWO VOTES IN MY SECTION...... ok and a quick disclaimer for above posts... it is only russell and i that live in our house.. no roomies and NO kids... so i CAN stand at the door... plus our neighbors are quite a bit away LOL
 
Ummmmmmm ya gotta watch those binoculars LOL

I would love to have neighbours that are a ways off. I remember a story about when my parents were first married, in our old house. It had an open porch and one day my parents were *making out* on it. They then went into the house LOL.....the neighbour (don't know which one) thought it would be funny to call the police saying they thought there was a domestic disturbance going on. When the police showed up my father answered the door in a house coat or towel, i dont' remember which. LOL..........could you imagine????????????

I'm not in a finacial position to buy a house right now, but when i do it'll be one surrounded by trees and far away from any neighbour LOL

Red :)
 
my two cents

It depends on where we go, but usually i pick my outfit about 10 min before and i throw the makeup on and leave the hair down. (my husband loves that) And thats how i go out on a date when and if my husband takes me out. lol
 
I like to doll myself up when it's a nice date. I don't own makeup and I don't know how to put it on, but I do like to find sexy feminine clothes for a nice night out. I also leave my hair down, I keep it up all day every day, so when it's down I feel "dressed up".

All other dates would definately be jeans and a nice shirt :)
 
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