While i respect everyone's opinion, and expected heated remarks, it still doesnt change the fact Lucille has claimed that my thread can stay.
As far as i can tell, i have never had any other problems with any of you except maybe a possible clashing of opinions in a BOI thread maybe. The problem i have is that some of you would have the audacity to start insinuating what i am due to my posting this thread. A dog? Now im not a man either? Indecent? Without Common sense? and more..... Well, I appreciate the remarks from people who claim to be more professional than me. Professionalism is knowing how to handle yourself in a proper manner. Replying telling me that my behaviour is that of dogs, that i need to be pitied, that i lack common sense and decency, im immature, irresponsible?? I could go on, but that doesnt seem to be very professional to me. You may claim that my post here was unprofessional, and i'll reitterate my opinion in different words "Being close minded and a conformist can make you see things in a different light, one that i do not share"
The funny part about all this, is that the first mention of having a 2nd woman was by my wife in the first place. Being with the man she was with before she was not "allowed" to be herself and explore her sexuality. Now, im not saying i said "No" or anything even close to that when she first asked. We discussed things and planted a foundation for how our encounters of this kind would go. See, most people can't have these kind of situations in there face without blowing up. But im a fairly responsible individual, and am pretty cautious in alot of what i do. 99% of my friends ask me how i can have both of my babies mother's living in the same house and not having someone dead by now. Wanna know the answer? Cause i know how to handle myself, and so does my wife. She needed a place to live, so she's staying here with her husband and actually being a part of her son's life (Since i have custody of him) And we all get along like 1 big happy family. You guys take alot WAY too serious, and i truly pity you for that. You know how many minutes a week i spend on stressing ANYTHING? None, why? Because stress only leads to stress related illness's and a miserable life. Not my style!
Also, if you really REALLY read what my post says, i said "If we have another woman in the relationship". This isnt just a sex thing. I just asked if they can enjoy sexual relations with both sexes. Cause if they're in a relationship with a guy AND a girl... Hmmm?
You can say my marriage is destined for failure, but i can tell you that your farther from wrong than you could ever be. Mature, responsible people who enjoy the swing life style usually stay together for many many years. Why? Cause it takes a great deal of maturity to handle the lifestyle. I've known my wife for 15 years, we where best friends before lovers and still are best friends. That will never change. We have an almost 2 year old boy together now also and life is great.
For those of you who want to post more personal attacks on the way i choose to live my life, your wasting your energy. Use it for something a bit more constructive, instead of destructive. No purpose constantly posting attacks, Lucille says it stays, so that should be the end. If Rich says this post has to go, then by all means. He's the boss! Until then, im glad to see who i want as friends and who i dont.
