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Bad Guy Dean Stemple Strictly Exotics BAD GUY!

Someone I consider a friend suggested I come onto the boi and speak my side of the story.

Yes Dean and I have been having problems that have nothing to do with this thread. However I did lie to Dean about attempting to work things out with him over the past six months so I can figure out a way I can make it on my own and get back to Kansas City. When he made the deal with Chris, he thought we would be paying the bills together. I never gave him a reason to think otherwise. Life is more peaceful and less fights if I just made it seem like everything is ok. My reason for leaving had nothing to do with his business. I won't put all of Dean's business out there but I do know that my leaving has put a considerable financial hardship on him. His first priority is and always will be the health and wellbeing of his animals, which is where his money first goes. He no longer has an I-Phone, the only reason Utta was able to reach him on his phone is because I told him he had until the end of February to get the phone out of my name. He will more than likely be losing his business phone number, as we can't figure out a way to allow him to port it without me being stuck with the ETF. I can't speak on the communication aspect but I do know that since the seperation started I haven't communicated to people like I should in my life. For those of who, that have me on facebook, you will see my sister asking me if I still have my phone. (If you are reading this Kristyl, sorry I know I told you I misplaced my phone and I should of found time for my sister I know)
I know Dean and I have had our problems and some of them have been posted on this forum for the world to see. I can say for certain that Dean isn't a bad guy. He will make this right with Chris. He hasn't attempted to screw me out of anything and other then him telling me he is bitter and hurt I blindsided him he understands my reasons (which is noones business).
If you aren't going to screw your wife over in a divorce when your bitter and hurt, you aren't going to screw a business deal over. It is just going to take him time to get recouped financially now that he is doing it on his own. Anyone who has gone through a divorce I am sure understands.
 
Someone I consider a friend suggested I come onto the boi and speak my side of the story.

Yes Dean and I have been having problems that have nothing to do with this thread. However I did lie to Dean about attempting to work things out with him over the past six months so I can figure out a way I can make it on my own and get back to Kansas City. When he made the deal with Chris, he thought we would be paying the bills together. I never gave him a reason to think otherwise. Life is more peaceful and less fights if I just made it seem like everything is ok. My reason for leaving had nothing to do with his business. I won't put all of Dean's business out there but I do know that my leaving has put a considerable financial hardship on him. His first priority is and always will be the health and wellbeing of his animals, which is where his money first goes. He no longer has an I-Phone, the only reason Utta was able to reach him on his phone is because I told him he had until the end of February to get the phone out of my name. He will more than likely be losing his business phone number, as we can't figure out a way to allow him to port it without me being stuck with the ETF. I can't speak on the communication aspect but I do know that since the seperation started I haven't communicated to people like I should in my life. For those of who, that have me on facebook, you will see my sister asking me if I still have my phone. (If you are reading this Kristyl, sorry I know I told you I misplaced my phone and I should of found time for my sister I know)
I know Dean and I have had our problems and some of them have been posted on this forum for the world to see. I can say for certain that Dean isn't a bad guy. He will make this right with Chris. He hasn't attempted to screw me out of anything and other then him telling me he is bitter and hurt I blindsided him he understands my reasons (which is noones business).
If you aren't going to screw your wife over in a divorce when your bitter and hurt, you aren't going to screw a business deal over. It is just going to take him time to get recouped financially now that he is doing it on his own. Anyone who has gone through a divorce I am sure understands.

Reagan, please call him so he can sort this out. I can relate with the whole divorce thing....really. He just needs to come on here and explain it so all can understand. PLEASE get him on here.
 
Someone I consider a friend suggested I come onto the boi and speak my side of the story.

Yes Dean and I have been having problems that have nothing to do with this thread. However I did lie to Dean about attempting to work things out with him over the past six months so I can figure out a way I can make it on my own and get back to Kansas City. When he made the deal with Chris, he thought we would be paying the bills together. I never gave him a reason to think otherwise. Life is more peaceful and less fights if I just made it seem like everything is ok. My reason for leaving had nothing to do with his business. I won't put all of Dean's business out there but I do know that my leaving has put a considerable financial hardship on him. His first priority is and always will be the health and wellbeing of his animals, which is where his money first goes. He no longer has an I-Phone, the only reason Utta was able to reach him on his phone is because I told him he had until the end of February to get the phone out of my name. He will more than likely be losing his business phone number, as we can't figure out a way to allow him to port it without me being stuck with the ETF. I can't speak on the communication aspect but I do know that since the seperation started I haven't communicated to people like I should in my life. For those of who, that have me on facebook, you will see my sister asking me if I still have my phone. (If you are reading this Kristyl, sorry I know I told you I misplaced my phone and I should of found time for my sister I know)
I know Dean and I have had our problems and some of them have been posted on this forum for the world to see. I can say for certain that Dean isn't a bad guy. He will make this right with Chris. He hasn't attempted to screw me out of anything and other then him telling me he is bitter and hurt I blindsided him he understands my reasons (which is noones business).
If you aren't going to screw your wife over in a divorce when your bitter and hurt, you aren't going to screw a business deal over. It is just going to take him time to get recouped financially now that he is doing it on his own. Anyone who has gone through a divorce I am sure understands.

Reagan-glad to hear from you again. I'm so sorry it isn't under better circumstances, though.

I'm sorry to hear that things have fallen apart between you and Dean. :(

I do understand all the divorce stuff. Been there-done that. 27 years later, I'm still worse off than before I met the ex. He cleaned me out.

I hope things get better for BOTH of you.

If you wanna talk, PM me, hon.

Meanwhile...:ack2:
 
Someone I consider a friend suggested I come onto the boi and speak my side of the story.

Yes Dean and I have been having problems that have nothing to do with this thread. However I did lie to Dean about attempting to work things out with him over the past six months so I can figure out a way I can make it on my own and get back to Kansas City. When he made the deal with Chris, he thought we would be paying the bills together. I never gave him a reason to think otherwise. Life is more peaceful and less fights if I just made it seem like everything is ok. My reason for leaving had nothing to do with his business. I won't put all of Dean's business out there but I do know that my leaving has put a considerable financial hardship on him. His first priority is and always will be the health and wellbeing of his animals, which is where his money first goes. He no longer has an I-Phone, the only reason Utta was able to reach him on his phone is because I told him he had until the end of February to get the phone out of my name. He will more than likely be losing his business phone number, as we can't figure out a way to allow him to port it without me being stuck with the ETF. I can't speak on the communication aspect but I do know that since the seperation started I haven't communicated to people like I should in my life. For those of who, that have me on facebook, you will see my sister asking me if I still have my phone. (If you are reading this Kristyl, sorry I know I told you I misplaced my phone and I should of found time for my sister I know)
I know Dean and I have had our problems and some of them have been posted on this forum for the world to see. I can say for certain that Dean isn't a bad guy. He will make this right with Chris. He hasn't attempted to screw me out of anything and other then him telling me he is bitter and hurt I blindsided him he understands my reasons (which is noones business).
If you aren't going to screw your wife over in a divorce when your bitter and hurt, you aren't going to screw a business deal over. It is just going to take him time to get recouped financially now that he is doing it on his own. Anyone who has gone through a divorce I am sure understands.


I guess I am curious...do the statements in BOLD as well as the earlier comment that he is a "stand up guy" take into account the multiple counts of fraud in the five figure range on Ebay?

That topic seems to have been mentioned and dismissed here.

I realize that it is not reptile related but i think, if true, it definitely counters those glowing recommendations.

All evidence to date...the guy is simply a thief. Personal problems not withstanding.
 
I know if my wife blindsided me with a divorce and ran off with my kids my head wouldn't be right.The Ebay thing is old news,kind of shocked at the number of regs that didn't know about that.

Everyone should take a step back and let the guy get his head straightened out,and give him a chance to defend himself here.I'm sure we'll hear from Dean eventually.
 
I know if my wife blindsided me with a divorce and ran off with my kids my head wouldn't be right.The Ebay thing is old news,kind of shocked at the number of regs that didn't know about that.

Everyone should take a step back and let the guy get his head straightened out,and give him a chance to defend himself here.I'm sure we'll hear from Dean eventually.

:iagree:
 
Chris,
I just talked to Dean and only posting this because he cannot post it himself. He no longer has access to fauna because he cannot remember his password and his registered fauna email address is no longer active. Please send Dean a text message tomorrow at some point, he no longer has your number. Chances are Dean will not post on fauna due to legal issues from the divorce, until the divorce is final.

He does want to get this resolved with you Chris.

I will also not be posting on fauna anymore for the same reasons. Thank you everyone for your well wishes.
 
Chris,
I just talked to Dean and only posting this because he cannot post it himself. He no longer has access to fauna because he cannot remember his password and his registered fauna email address is no longer active. Please send Dean a text message tomorrow at some point, he no longer has your number. Chances are Dean will not post on fauna due to legal issues from the divorce, until the divorce is final.

He does want to get this resolved with you Chris.

I will also not be posting on fauna anymore for the same reasons. Thank you everyone for your well wishes.

Anybody smell that stuff? Not sure if I stepped in it or what? I'm thinkin' bull:censored:!!!
 
Anybody smell that stuff? Not sure if I stepped in it or what? I'm thinkin' bull:censored:!!!

And another thing.

First she comes on here playing the sympathy game, and now she dumps a pile of crap on top of it. I think she's a scammer too.
 
Chris,
I just talked to Dean and only posting this because he cannot post it himself. He no longer has access to fauna because he cannot remember his password and his registered fauna email address is no longer active. Please send Dean a text message tomorrow at some point, he no longer has your number. Chances are Dean will not post on fauna due to legal issues from the divorce, until the divorce is final.

He does want to get this resolved with you Chris.

I will also not be posting on fauna anymore for the same reasons. Thank you everyone for your well wishes.


And.....we're off :bolt01::bolt01::bolt01::bolt01::bolt01:

The "legal" reason for not posting coupled with the rest of the "Dog ate my homework" excuses for not addressing this seem awfully convenient.

This one stinks!
 
Chris,
I just talked to Dean and only posting this because he cannot post it himself. He no longer has access to fauna because he cannot remember his password and his registered fauna email address is no longer active. Please send Dean a text message tomorrow at some point, he no longer has your number. Chances are Dean will not post on fauna due to legal issues from the divorce, until the divorce is final.

He does want to get this resolved with you Chris.

I will also not be posting on fauna anymore for the same reasons. Thank you everyone for your well wishes.

You even said yourself in post 124 "Yes Dean and I have been having problems that have nothing to do with this thread". So regardless of what legal issues he has from the divorce, you even said yourself, they have nothing to do with this thread. I really hope you make this right Dean, I will be really shocked if you don't.
 
The only person Dean needs to respond to is Chris. He changed all his passwords so I don't have access and can't figure this one out(as well as others). His email was part of his website, which he hasn't been able to pay, due to finances so doesn't have access to it. It isn't like he allowed people to do auctions for him when his parents house was hit by a tornado and people asked him, he said no. It isn't like he has been going on a shopping spree buying a whole lot of things. NOt sure how it can be a scam, it's rough times. Chris please text him so he has your number again.
 
The only person Dean needs to respond to is Chris. He changed all his passwords so I don't have access and can't figure this one out(as well as others). His email was part of his website, which he hasn't been able to pay, due to finances so doesn't have access to it. It isn't like he allowed people to do auctions for him when his parents house was hit by a tornado and people asked him, he said no. It isn't like he has been going on a shopping spree buying a whole lot of things. NOt sure how it can be a scam, it's rough times. Chris please text him so he has your number again.

What about all the people that have supported him through this thread?
 
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