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Who moderates the moderators

It amazes me that a moderator can just chime in with an opinon about holding it together two posts after they tell you to stop bickering....poor behavior in my opinion...I posted a thread get all kinds of gruff from all sides then a moderator chimes in to put more wood on the fire.....what gives?
 
The mods give a LOT of their time free to this site and do a good job. If you have a problem you can always send them a private message, and if you are reasonable I bet you would get a positive response.
 
Moderators can get infractions for breaking site rules the same as any other person that posts on this site. Moderators are also users of the site and are free to post their opinions as such, the same as any other member.

is that the information you are looking for? perhaps I did not understand your inquiry

edit to add - just because a moderator makes a post, it does not mean all their posts are being done in the capacity of 'moderator'
 
Moderators can get infractions for breaking site rules the same as any other person that posts on this site. Moderators are also users of the site and are free to post their opinions as such, the same as any other member.

is that the information you are looking for? perhaps I did not understand your inquiry

edit to add - just because a moderator makes a post, it does not mean all their posts are being done in the capacity of 'moderator'

I think he feels since you guys are mods, you can't voice your own opinions, which is not the case.
 
Anyone, even Rich can post as a member. Their personal opinion can and does differ from the site policy sometimes. Does this mean that no one should be a moderator? Or should simply give their membership status to be devoted to the site as a moderator all the time? Why?
 
I think he feels since you guys are mods, you can't voice your own opinions, which is not the case.

I have NO opinion here....I just wanted to clear up that I think he was saying a mod said to stop talking about "something" but then that same mod started talking about that same "something" again.

I have no idea what is going on, that is just what I got from what I read.
 
I think the ultimate moderator is Rich. He put his trust into the people he has working the boards. Well deserved, I might add. I have never seen a mod play favorites or treated another unfairly.
The mods are just people. They can make mistakes just like anyone else. They also have opinions and the rights to express them as anyone else. Just because they are mods, they are not mute. I think it's pretty silly to think anyone would want to be a mid if they are ONLY here to scour the boards looking for people who screw up.
 
I have NO opinion here....I just wanted to clear up that I think he was saying a mod said to stop talking about "something" but then that same mod started talking about that same "something" again.

I have no idea what is going on, that is just what I got from what I read.
I looked at the OPs past posts and this issue seems to be from the JP Pets thread.
 
I looked at the OPs past posts and this issue seems to be from the JP Pets thread.

That would explain why I am clueless lol I have not kept up with that one.
I just thought from reading his opening post of this thread that is what he was talking about.
 
The posts by Daniel which directly led to my intervention in that thread:
Kim keep you opinons to yourself its stated in the BOI policy to do so (there was more, but it was unrelated to this issue)
FOR KIM FROM THE BOI POLICY



I am going out on a limb and expect a lot of flak from people by providing this forum, so if you are not willing to stand up, state your claim, and put your name on it, then I'm not interested in providing you the space to make anonymous accusationsThis is NOT the place for flame wars of any kind. Statements, rebuttals and clarifications of FACTS are what we are looking for. Personal slurs or heated discusssions about someone's ancestry will not be tolerated. Opinions are acceptable as long as it is PLAINLY stated that you are stating an opinion.
you havent plainly stated an opinion yet KIM.......just fanning your own flames from what I can tell....as for predators...funny the umpteen orders youve been sent from me and you dont have the recipet for one of them and place the expectation on me to provide the information you lack for the mistake youve made...one of many that ive met more than halfway in an attempt to do good buisness, as for your organization i cannot say the same. Thats a fact.

At that point, I stated:
Daniel - save your antagonism. The BOI is not the place for you to bicker with other members about site policy.

His response
You betcha HH No problem, can we have an evenhanded approach to all of those that are in the same mode of communication? Please?

I interpreted that as him wanting me to address other participants,
You were the one that took it there...and are the most likely to continue, as evidenced by your approach thoughout this thread. Personally, I'm surprised you've held it together enough not to get booted for a bit.

He ramped it up a notch, and I advised him to take his concerns this forum. Not sure where he put it, since it had to be moved here :rolleyes:
So the extent of my fueling the fire was stating that I was surprised he had managed not to get booted. At the time, I considered it akin to a warning...especially since I had been on the verge of removing him at two different times in that thread.
 
HH-akin to a warning and a warning are two different things....look at the whole thread....ive been soured by all people and even you have taken a partial antagonistic approach to delever akin warnings....im all about good approach quote all context not just some that you see justifiable to akin warnings...other mods have been looking at the thread Ive been told to go drink etc etc hence the evenhanded request
 
I'm well aware of that...had I intended to give you a real warning, I would have. Most people, receiving a comment like that could have read enough between the lines to figure it out. You, on the other hand, just decided to argue.
As far as reading the thread, and seeing what's been going on, I have been. Intentionally, or not, you have come off as abrasive and needling. That you made such a huge issue over the other party telling you to relax and have a drink, then went on your little tangent about him donating to MADD or AA, really made me wonder if you are that out of touch...or maybe you were trying to be humorous?

Either way, the series of posts before I stepped in were disruptive and offtopic. You might not have liked the fact that I addressed you personally, but you were the source of the problem at that time.
 
BTW - in answer to your original question.
A moderator's actions are subject to review by the rest of the moderation team, and, ultimately, the site owner/administrator.
 
heres where it starts with opinons and such


reptilebaby
That's ridiculous that he took advantage of you being trusting and ran. I don't think I would ever trust a waybill (actually it's the people I wouldn't trust)


serafim
Personally i would never do business with JP Pets I have seen their animals.. And I question their business practices..

C.B. BABY HET FOR SPIDER BALLS 24.95
C.B. BABY HET FOR JUNGLE BALL PYHONS 24.95
C.B. BABY HET FOR PASTEL BALLS 24.95
C.B. BABY HET FOR PIED BALL PYTHONS 24.95

Looks really fishy... good price on that het for Spider LMAO



wyldworm

Your refusal to post the bill kind of makes me wonder if you haven't LOST the bill yourself. Now, you have nothing to prove that he does indeed owe money so poking and instigating him to make him lose his temper is your only course of action.

I don't know either of you but I do know that you are acting very childish and petty. I'd never do business with anyone who makes it this difficult to simply pay a bill.

reptilebaby

You know, just from reading this, I am starting to think that you just like the attention you and your thread are getting. All it is doing is showing everyone how immature you are. Good god, man! My 3 and 5 year old boys act more mature than this......and I mean that LITERALLY


again reptilebaby

You know what? Your condescending and idiotic ATTEMPTED put downs make you look like a kindergartener in the playground pouting because someone poked you with a toy shovel in the sand box. If you want respect maybe you should try earning it, by respecting the members here, instead of doing cheap put downs and personal attacks to people who just want proof so they know who is in the right! I have been polite, but if you want to make me mad, just keep trying to "have a go" and you'll see just how mad I can get. You want to bring my kids into it? tell me to go talk about my kids with someone as if that's all women are good for??? Trust me, You would be BROKEN, BEAT DOWN, MISERABLE, and HATE the fact that you were EVEN ALIVE if you knew even HALF of the stuff I HAVE BEEN THROUGH with my second child-who is no longer alive!!! Don't you EVER EVER mention kids in a condescending way even offhand to me again! I have a life off of my computer, and I never posted often. I do NOT post just to hear my Keystrokes.
I'm sorry, mods if this is going overboard......That condescending remark about going somewhere and talking about kids got me...maube I'll start a topic about what happened to me in hell.



these people have no direct association with JP Pets nor me

it has been some of the banter that has been associated with the thread and how things have been escalating to the point of HH's comments even prior to warnings or those akin
 
and as for the drink comment HH ive been without booze for along time and the suggestion makes me think of those loved ones lost to acholism...I dont drink I dont like booze I dont like booze refernces....talk about off topic...its serioius and not a funny matter.
 
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