I just got home after a long day of class/studying on campus. This is the first chance I've had to look at this thread today (which I stated last night would probably be the case). I'm going to post a partial response now and will post another partial response later tonight or tomorrow morning. I have a life and responsibilities - so I'm not able to respond as quickly and as thoroughly as I'd like to most the time. I apologize in advance if it appears I'm "avoiding" any issues. I can assure you I'll deal with everything eventually.
Meg & Ed - you have earned yourselves my distinct and undivided attention - and I hope you're both feeling up to seeing this whole thing through. Neither of you have ever done business with me - and neither of you know me as a person or a breeder. I therefore am of the opinion that both of you seem to enjoy berating people who you know only the slightest bit of information about - even people who you don't directly have a bone to pick with. The BOI is a serious place to be posting - and it's clear that neither of you have a full and complete understanding of how much damage you can do to people's reputations by making threads unnecessarily long and arduous to sift through. Nobody looking someone up on the BOI wants to spend hours reading through hundreds of posts just to find out if someone is a decent person or not.
After reading everything - the main issue everyone seems to have is the sentence below... (Meg seemed to get really upset about this in particular)
I did originally sell Max to Chad. When I found out that everyone was all hot and bothered about him owning Max - I told Chad I wanted to buy Max back. I didn't tell everyone that originally - nor did I deny it. That was just part of the transaction I didn't really think was relevant until after Andrew Gilpin made his post. I refunded Chad most of the money he paid for Max - but not all of it (since after all he did have Max in his care and was therefore able to breed him to a few of his females). I got the tracking number from Chad this afternoon and expect to receive Max tomorrow morning no problemo.
Now - onto the intricacies of the English language that Meg & Ed seem unable to understand.
pos·ses·sion [puh-zesh-uhn]
noun
1. the act or fact of possessing.
2. the state of being possessed.
3.
ownership.
I said that Chad didn't
own Max - and that I had him
in my possession - I didn't say I had Max
in my care. The latter would have indicated that Max was here at my house in Portland, Oregon - and not in Los Angeles, California. But notice how I said that I had him
in my possession - and that the first use of a word to define the meaning of "possession" (which didn't stem from the word possession itself) was
ownership. Fascinating. And since I issued Chad his partial refund for the purchase of Max - Max had therefore already passed back into my ownership. So at this point - I owned/possessed Max - Chad had Max in his care - and Chad had told me that Max was doing just fine. I re-stated this to everyone else in the quoted section above. So - I expect to have Max back
in my care tomorrow, even though Max is already back in my
possession.
Details and technicalities aside - was my original statement about Max misleading? Probably, yes. Was my original statement about Max a
LIE? Not in the slightest. But tomorrow morning when I (will probably) receive Max in the mail - this is all going to be a moot point anyway.
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Now on to a post Ed made which I took issue with...
First off - you know almost nothing about me Ed. I currently have in my possession (and care

) every species in the Rhacodactylus genus...
-Rhacodactylus auriculatus
-Rhacodactylus chahoua
-Rhacodactylus ciliatus
-Rhacodactylus leachianus
-Rhacodactylus sarasinorum
-Rhacodactylus trachyrhynchus
- and I breed all 6 of the 6 total species. So I think you're the one who's confused Ed. How would you like it if I put up a post in the BOI leading people to believe that you don't breed Bearded Dragons? I bet you wouldn't appreciate it - that's for sure. But I'm not going to stoop to your level and do something like that - because the BOI is way more serious than you seem to think it is. You should have also read everything in this thread through a bit more thoroughly, because I had stated earlier in this thread that I bought Max directly from Ryan and not from AC...
So if I were playing by your rules - I would now make about 8 posts saying "Ed Lied! Ed Lied!" - because that's exactly what you did (as I just showed). But I said it once - and that's enough. I don't need to make 8 more posts to reinforce my point...
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Now on to another post Ed made...
Well Ed - that is your opinion. And unfortunately your opinion has absolutely no bearing on the actual market value of the animal (Max in this case) - because you did not take part in the transaction. I don't mark snarky opinion comments about what I think your Bearded Dragon's are worth - because frankly I wouldn't have much of an informed opinion on the prices of your animals - just like you don't have much of an experience based opinion on the prices I can sell my animals for. So I would appreciate it in the future if you would avoid making condescending and trivial comments about the value of animals that aren't within your realm of expertise.
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If Andrew Gilpin actually just wanted to bring up something relevant to this thread - all he had to post was one sentence out of that entire private message - but instead he posted the entire thing - which had to do with much more than business I conducted with Chad. The disrespect I showed Andrew Gilpin in that PM has to do with sooooo much more than anyone here even knows. And it's personal. It is for that reason that I am of the opinion that Andrew Gilpin really didn't care too much about what was going on in this thread as he did about "getting even". You crossed a line Andrew Gilpin. I have NEVER taken anyone to the BOI over a personal dispute OR a business dispute. Respected breeders in general almost
never take business issues to the BOI - because they know how much damage it can to to someone's reputation. The fact that you made a a direct attack on my personal reputation in the BOI reflects how low you are willing to stoop to have the last word / put the other person down. Even if you sent me a PM a thousand times ruder than the one I sent you - I would never have dragged your name through the mud on the BOI. Never. Just because you're
allowed to do something doesn't mean you should. I'm
allowed to ruin people's reputations here - just like you are - but the difference is that I don't.