The AFT lost her cage mate of over 8 years. A coworker has a female AFT and when they have been housed together mine would eat. With another AFT in the tank she will eat and acts like her old self. Her cage mate was around 13 years old and died due to age. Not all animals of a species are the same.
I agree. Whether or not this is the same person, this thread really does has the "feel" of that other thread/person.
Also, yes, some form of proof, from Rhonda, would be nice.
BTW Rhonda, many people DO open their boxes at the shipping office/hub.
Also, I doubt your gecko is suffering from loneliness. AFT Geckos are, by nature, solitary animals. It is a BAD idea to introduce a new gecko into a tank/viv where one gecko has died and, now, the other is not eating.