So I have read this whole thread and just wow.
Here's how I see it:
1. You received a snake with little to no wobble which you claim arrived over heated, which you then failed to mention to the seller.
2. You said you were happy with her.
3. She ate 2 or 3 times.
4. She went into shed, causing her skin to look crinkly and causing the wobble to be exaggerated.
5. Your inexperience led you to believe she was dehydrated and you force fed her water, stress once again leading her wobble to be exaggerated.
6. She shed and is now back to her original little to no wobble.
7. Despite the above, despite your refund no being confirmed and despite Rob not giving you permission to send him back the snake you are insisting on sending her anyway, thus endangering her life.
Conclusion:
Rob owes you nothing. He sold you a perfectly healthy snake. You are pushing to send her back so PP or your Cc company with issue a refund no questions asked, no matter what the risk to the snake.
As for "if you use PayPal you accept there terms." Rightio then. Maybe you should accept that PayPal does not cover the sale of live animals.
Also any chance of a new video of her, with today's paper in. As it wouldn't surprise me if at this point you have killed her and are pushing to send her back to say she was DOA.
To Rob: I am not in your neck of the woods, Im in the UK BUT if I was I would have no issue buying from you after reading this thread and if anything I think this thread has only strengthen your reputation.