Ok, well well. Interesting discussions, and I commend the purpose and efforts of the Fauna mods in mediating such a discussion, as well as EVERYONES involvement.
I feel the only thing left for me to address, are these apparent 'threats'.
I did send that email to April, regarding that she belongs in a ditch. I do not consider it a threat on her life, although I figured she was going to be using it in such a manner (understandably good points for her case). Do I think a thief belongs in a ditch? Yes. Did I ever make a direct threat? No.
I am not the most emotionally mature individual, ESPECIALLY when I have had a thousand dollars of my hard earned money become 'dust in the wind'. Being strung out for nearly two months, hearing excuse after excuse after excuse. I have been burned on herp sales before, and have friends and associates that have as well. I know how shady people can be, and how hopeless such a fight can be as well. I got a point where I literally yelling "I FEEL LIKE I'M TAKING CRAZY PILLS". That is not a good feeling.. especially when my time is extremely limited.
Does anyone remember Jason Hooten from Geckophoria? Lost around 2K in one of his final transactions. Nothing to do. Nowhere to go. No resolution to be found.
You would have thought I would have learned my lesson.
It was just especially hurtful on how I directly questioned April in her honesty very early in our emails, and how she pleaded that she was honest and that I would be completely safe and happy in doing business with her. Does the chain of events sound honest? No.
I have been in this industry since I was a kid. It was not hard to see what was going on - heck, I saw questionable things from the get go. I have seen breeders, brokers, flippers, and the like all lose money from unforeseen circumstances, only to never make good on other deals. I have observed their thought processes in certain situations and saw this entire event beginning to unfold. The constant shuffle of one excuse to another? Really?
I think she had good intentions, but lost sight of what was an appropriate pathway. I would have felt a little different if she would have just been honest with me and said, I don't have the money right now Zach...and I asked her for this honesty numerous times
Instead, excuse after excuse after excuse.
So here I am. No way to get my money back. No way to feasibly enforce the law. Nothing to do but vent my emotions and feelings. Was I always the most appropriate about it? No. But what am I left with at the end of the day when I know that someone has taken my money in an dishonest manner? Do I ever see myself getting my money back? No. Why? Because I have seen this kind of thing happen too often, and even to now, April provides one excuse after another.
Were my actions best suited to yield myself a return? No. But again, what I am left with at the end of this? Nothing.
I will quote one of the first couple email interactions I had with April...
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Feb 19, 2013 03:41:19 PM, [email protected] wrote: I do not know what you mean, but that is fine, I was confused with two to three different emails and you're not very detailed in questions you are asking. We appreciate your time, but sounds to me like you're out looking for people who scam and that is surely not us- we have healthy beautiful chams were just trying to find homes for. Good luck in your search
On Feb 19, 2013, at 5:53 PM, "[email protected]" <[email protected]> wrote:
> The deal is a little off to me. I will probably pass, thanks for your time and considerations though./QUOTE]