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Bad Guy FRAUD. Connor McGraw

Here is another number he may try to use 203-491-7090 I think it is a friend of his.

Kile
I will gladly give you a bearded dragon that he was trying to scam me out of, if we can work something out on shipping.



Your a pussy because you won't pick up your :censored: phone.
 
If you want to make his parents aware of what he is doing, there is a simple way to do it. Start mailing post cards to his address (I think in the other thread there are 2 possible address)with clearly visible messages written in big black sharpie, saying things like "WHY WOULD YOU SCAM ME CONNOR?" and "PLEASE SEND ME MY ANIMALS BACK" or anything that will bring shame to him. He's probably still in school and can't possibly intercept the mail every day before his parents. I'm willing to bet they don't know he has done this (which is why he flipped out in the other thread when you started posting info on his family) but they will if you start mailing him things.


I get the mail every day you stupid :censored:.
 
Even if the situation is fixed talking like that is just going to make you look bad in everyone's eyes. No one will want to do business with you. Everything you post here is here to stay. I'd seriously consider for the sake of your own future you try to conduct your self with some maturity and respect. Your only making a bad situation worse. The deeper you dig yourself into the hole the harder it will be to get out of it.
 
Ok, clearly we are dealing with two children, who are both bantering, name calling...good luck in life to the both of you, as you have a lot to learn still...
 
You really need to watch your language scammer ! I really don't appreciate the censored curse words. Guess what dude remember this every dog has its day.... Yours will be coming soon. You need to make this right with the op. You stole his animals. How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot ? You wanna act grown and throw some big boy curse words in a public forum... Oh yea you bad better watch out... Be a real man.. A real man is not gonna let his family get dragged around in the mud for something he did. A real man steps up and takes responsibility for his actions. Not have his family's name trashed because you wanted to act immature. Good job now everyone online knows your family's name, address, work place. Yea you really did a good job with this scam let me tell you. Lol lol lol.... Ridiculous grow up and give the kid his geckos back. Or just press charges on him. You hAve everything you need right here. All the proof all the information where he lives where his family works. Lock him up. You wanna be a big boy and act tough do me a favor tell Big Bubba I said don't go to rough on you. Lol better yet i take that back you need it. :)
 
By the way Connor.. your little outbursts just make you look guilty.. classic scammer move! Being honest, sincere, humble and doing the right thing are the only way to undo this situation. Your still a child do you really want to ruin your reputation and future so early in life?
 
Your a :censored: because you won't pick up your :censored: phone.

Do you think I would give you my personal phone number? Goes straight to voice mail no matter who calls. If you want my number you can search for it. Good luck!

Everyone,

Here is what I propose, go to your Web browser and search Conner Mcgraw. Only click on the ones related to the boi here. That will move the boi's of Conner to the top of the search results.
 
Conner

Seriously, I would like to help you get past this. There is no since in the name calling outburst, all anyone wants is you to come clean. This type of behavior will get you nowhere in life.

By the time I was 18, I had been in jail more times than I care to admit. I will not stoop to name calling or trash talking. I will not accept your calls from any number, because it will not turn out well for either of us.

YOU and only YOU can change this!
 
Conner,
Starting this early will ensure that by the time you are an adult you will no longer be able to sell to people, but many people will be unwilling to sell to you. If you want to have any future keeping herps you need to rectify this now. Have you ever heard of Pat Kane? He started scamming at a young age and he had built up such a black mark on his name that when it was found out an up-and-coming tarantula dealer had him working for them, the community shunned it and they had to shut down.

This WILL happen to you. No ifs. Blatant fraudulent behavior has lifelong consequences. Do you think it will be hard for a potential employer to google your name and find this permanent forum?

Before you start slinging cusses and talking in more [nonsensical] circles I challenge you to make a rational response to what I have just said.
 
Here is an alternative...
 

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Harassing a minor? Good luck getting away with that one guys. The stuff being said to Connor on here is known as what they teach us in school as "cyber bullying" and that is a huge problem on your part and can cause hu get issues for you guys.
 
Kile I swear I'm your biggest fan for situation getting resolved. I know you personally asked me lastnight to back off Connor. And as soon as you sent me that email and said please stop he's offering to make it right if I stop texting him I stopped. And I did it against my own better judgement because this is your deal not mine. But I think the pressure that I was trying to apply was the reason he said make him stop contacting me and I'll make it right. I'm personally thinking with the pressure gone he will lose his motivation to make this right.

Connor you got your wish for now but if you don't make this situation square by weeks end I'm going to post the entire thread of our text. You should go back and re-read it and ask yourself do I want to embarrass myself even more.

*** Kile there was no misunderstanding between you 2. Connor entered into this deal with the intent to scam you.
 
Yes, you backed off, but everyone else needs to also. I will post the outcome of what happens so don't worry. It'll eit her make or break connors rep. But I believe that he will follow through on this. I really do.
 
Another classic scammer move is to tell you whatever you want to hear to make you go away. I won't believe it till I see it.. I know this is your first time having to dwal with a situation like this but us old folks have seen it more times then I care to count and in almost every single situation the scammer would tell the person being scammed and everyone on this forum what they wanted to hear in hopes that by ignoring it it would go away. I agree that bullying isn't the way to fix it but that doesn't mean everyone should back down. I can bet you that the only reason connor wants to make things right is he wants everyone to go away. If he gets what he wants I doubt you will get what belongs to you!
 
The stuff being said to Connor on here is known as what they teach us in school as "cyber bullying"

Sorry, you do not know what you are talking about. Minors cannot engage in activities and communications that are inappropriate/harmful and then play the minor card and attempt to gag/silence the affected community.

Those on this site have every right to discuss the events leading up to this Bad Guy post and other information.
No one needs to back off of this, on the contrary, considering the number of sites 'itsalltender' has been to and the reports of some of those sites of negative behavior by 'itsalltender', the more his name is put out there, the safer the community will be.
 
So if I have proof that he has fixed things then that would change things. I know people may think otherwise. Like I said, I will post on the end product.
 
Kile I don't think that Connor cares about his reputation. I don't think he capable of thinking that far ahead. I think he wants what he wants and he doesn't care what he has to do to get it.
With that said I still hope your right.
Do you think a week is more than enough time for you to received whatever your going to end up with.
 
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