Hi Greg!
Thanks for your reply and your very tactfully offered advice. I appreciate your interest. Please be aware that despite a good deal of research, building and setting up an 8 foot by 2 foot enclosure with the suggested lighting and substrate, taking these torts to the vet twice and doing everything in my power for about a month straight to try to get them healthy, these poor tortoises are still.. well.. 1 is very sick and 1 dead. My research was actually exhaustive. Both of my daughters and I were seeking answers like crazy, so don't think we didn't to our best to educate ourselves.
Please let me be clear. I had NO idea they were wild caught. Is this even legal? I know I wouldn't have bought them had I known, because it's kind of a no brainer that wild animals should stay in the wild, unless they need to be rescued. If this is, indeed, not legal, isn't my question about where they came from valid? If I have accidentally or incidentally become involved in illegal activity, specifically the sale of imported, wild caught Russian Tortoises, isn't it logical that I would want to know this?
The average customer at a reptile convention is like me. Not as educated about herpetology as those who are selling. Do you want for the people who are buying the product to apologize for not knowing about the product, which in this case, is not only a THING but an actual living little guy? Don't you think it would be ideal if the breeders tried to see it from the consumers point of view a little bit? Or, if the customer has questions, concerns, fears, or lacks knowledge, is the best plan to tell them how exhausted you are by all of these silly questions?
With regard to the immediacy of my texts. if you look at the time of the texts, you will see that I didn't send another text for 4 hours after he didn't see my 1:37 PM text. Four hours is a long time to wait when your cute little guy is wheezing away, just inches from Tortoise Valhalla.
So, let me sum up.
Yes, retroactively, i agree that I wish I had been better prepared for this pet, but as Billy said at the table, "No one could have a problem with a tortoise!!"
Yes!! We should have researched more! We researched a lot, but clearly not enough, and I take responsibility for that.
Yes, my tone with Billy was impatient and it probably shouldn't have been. It really pissed me off that the very first thing he did was try to cover his ass, rather than have compassion for the animal and the owners. I see that this annoyance came through.
Yes, you are right, I am not likely to get anything back from Billy aside from another tortoise or my money back, and probably neither of those. My hope in addressing this with him is that a little spark will begin within him and he will see that it isn't ok to accept wild caught animals. I know that in other areas of herpetology he has the greatest respect for the animals, but this right doesn't undo the wrong of the suffering of these tortoises. I grew up on a farm. Hunting, fishing, animal care and butchering was all part of it, so I understand life and death of animals, but I was always taught to respect the animal. I've hand fed more baby bunnies and birds than you can shake a stick at and I have had my arm up to the elbows in a sheep's hoo haw pulling out a lamb. We didn't flush deer out of a woods, but relied on our hunting skill, and gave the strongest a chance at survival. We didn't take from nature anything that we could not put back or put into nature anything that would harm it. I see that there are beginnings of that morality in Billy, (for instance his little possum friend, or his respect for snakes and their handling) but he isn't 100% there yet. To be honest, I think he has great potential but not yet the maturity to make the right moral choices.
I agree that a second opinion is in order, and I really appreciate that Lynn was willing to send me the info. for the vet in Florida and the other medication. I'm planning to contact that vet tomorrow to see what is known about the med combo we are using, and possibly put him in touch with my vet.
I hope none of this comes across as rude... I am certain that no matter what I say in this forum, I am already done for, but to be fair, my concern is really for the animals, and that's where we all should be.
Lydia