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Bad Guy Bruce McElyea SCAM

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My father (Grady Calhoun) and I are currently having Bruce McElyea try to scam us. Screen shots will follow for details but here is the concise version. He contacted us about purchasing some mainland chahoua or trading for various leachianus. His leachianus information seemed inflated or possibly suspect so I did BOI search. I must have typoed in some way because I failed to find his previous negative BOI here on fauna. Definitely a costly mistake for not checking twice.

When looking at the email evidence, you may notice that the name on the email account is Grady Calhoun. As previously stated, he is my father and we share an email account to streamline our sales.

He first agreed to purchase one chahoua hatchling, but after a second became available he decided to purchase two. They were paid for in two payments via invoice on paypal.

We agreed to ship on October 16th 2017 for arrival on the 17th via SYR. He was sent a tracking number via SYR's fedex tracking service.

On the 17th, I was notified that the package was left at the door so I immediately contacted Bruce but he failed to respond. I was at work and an hour later, attempted contact again with no success.

Today (October 22), he is claiming that the package arrived but the deli cups were empty. He has had no contact prior to today. I believe that he wants two new hatchlings and not money, but we refuse to send either. While he was previously prone to typos, this most recent message is especially difficult to understand as if it is suddenly broken English or from under the effects of chemical substance.

The next few posts I will submit our email exchanges. Thanks
Justin Calhoun

As a side note, I do not know if it is appropriate for me to ask for help via PM if someone has experience dealing with scams like these to ensure that my money isnt stolen back, I would greatly appreciate it.
 
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Fourth. Edited his address out
 

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He has responded to me and still seems very hard to understand.

The first response was in line with the message for his to respond on the 17th as if he was trying to go back in time and respond I think.

The second is hard to understand and I was to use the third fedex to show that it wasnt even listed as delivered until after he claims he got the box.
 

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I didnt do a box up video because I was under the assumption that I cant prove that it stayed sealed afterwards but that is likely going to be done with every future shipment.
 
I can't imagine anyone getting a box on October 17th that was 'empty' and not saying anything to the seller for 5 days. I certainly can't imagine anyone believing such a ridiculous story either, so I don't know what he is thinking with this plan.

I think he is either scamming, or never retrieved the box for days and the animals died (I really hope this isn't the case). His communications to you don't even make sense at that point - he seems impaired in some way.

I don't think he would win a paypal claim; hopefully he isn't going to go that route and try and take the funds back.
 
My father (Grady Calhoun) and I are currently having Bruce McElyea try to scam us. Screen shots will follow for details but here is the concise version. He contacted us about purchasing some mainland chahoua or trading for various leachianus. His leachianus information seemed inflated or possibly suspect so I did BOI search. I must have typoed in some way because I failed to find his previous negative BOI here on fauna. Definitely a costly mistake for not checking twice.

When looking at the email evidence, you may notice that the name on the email account is Grady Calhoun. As previously stated, he is my father and we share an email account to streamline our sales.

He first agreed to purchase one chahoua hatchling, but after a second became available he decided to purchase two. They were paid for in two payments via invoice on paypal.

We agreed to ship on October 16th 2017 for arrival on the 17th via SYR. He was sent a tracking number via SYR's fedex tracking service.

On the 17th, I was notified that the package was left at the door so I immediately contacted Bruce but he failed to respond. I was at work and an hour later, attempted contact again with no success.

Today (October 22), he is claiming that the package arrived but the deli cups were empty. He has had no contact prior to today. I believe that he wants two new hatchlings and not money, but we refuse to send either. While he was previously prone to typos, this most recent message is especially difficult to understand as if it is suddenly broken English or from under the effects of chemical substance.

No surprises here, a leopard doesn't/can't change his spots.

If you don't get anywhere with this situation with Bruce, let me know. I have several law enforcement friends and close contacts in law enforcement, in Green County, Springfield MO. which is where Bruce lives, I'd be happy to help in any way I can.

In addition, I'm hoping this link works (I'm terrible at this internet jargon)

http://www.faunaclassifieds.com/forums/showthread.php?t=525088&highlight=Bruce+McElyea

^^^^^^^^^^That was 29 years ago.^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Sorry your having to deal with the likes of him, the VERY BEST OF LUCK to you!

Lynn Peterson
Big Time Reptiles
 
Is there anything in your TOS about how quickly after the package is delivered you need to be contacted if there is a problem? I've seen anywhere from two to four hours in the ones I've read, if it was there.

Also have you asked the seller if there is an unboxing video?
 
I failed to find his previous negative BOI here on fauna.

In the future, don't forget that you can always put up a new BOI thread inquiring about an individual prior to a transaction especially if you are unable to locate an existing thread. Other members might catch the typo and point you to the correct information.
 
I can't imagine anyone getting a box on October 17th that was 'empty' and not saying anything to the seller for 5 days. I certainly can't imagine anyone believing such a ridiculous story either, so I don't know what he is thinking with this plan.

I think he is either scamming, or never retrieved the box for days and the animals died (I really hope this isn't the case). His communications to you don't even make sense at that point - he seems impaired in some way.

I don't think he would win a paypal claim; hopefully he isn't going to go that route and try and take the funds back.

This ^^^^
 
Is there anything in your TOS about how quickly after the package is delivered you need to be contacted if there is a problem? I've seen anywhere from two to four hours in the ones I've read, if it was there.

As you and I both know Melinda, that's the industry standard, but knowing what I know about this character, and for as long as I've known, he's trying to get free critters, there can't be any other reason, I don't believe for a moment the OP shipped an empty box....

This has been his modus operandi, for the 29 years of known of him.

Has there been any updates?

Lynn Peterson
Big Time Reptiles
 
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