Hi Dyscophus antongilii, Thank you for the detailed reply.
You are very welcome. I am just glad you appreciate it. I am not ever sure how I am received

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After my initial research, I think the gecko is the better choice between the two.
I would agree. Though, I really and truly love amphibians.
I want to make sure I can meet their physical requirements without too much work. I have Rheumatoid Arthritis and Metastatic Cancer.
I am very sorry, you have two VERY PAINFUL conditions.
II'm to the point in my treatment where I'm relatively sure I'm going to survive for a while, at least as long as a gecko.
I am very glad to "hear" that. On serious note, you have a very positive attitude and a great sense of humor.
Certainly, other family members will and will continue to care for the animal, even if I can't.
That is very good.
I'd like to find an animal who is relatively docile and tolerates some handling well, or perhaps enjoys it. We're warm at least which should be pleasant enough when handling the pet. Also, it would be enjoyable to watch the pet interact with it's environment, eat, and generally being cute. An animal that is reasonably easy to feed is also good. I'm looking for a pet we can all safely interact with. I also need a pet with a minimal impact on the house, for my landlord. I think the gecko fits the bill quite nicely.
I agree with you. Elena gave you some wonderful choices.
I'm just not sure which breed is the right choice. I think crested gecko, a Chahuoa, Leopard, or Gargoyle type but am totally open to feedback on these or other options.
Of the species listed, I would go with the leopard. As long as you don't mind dealing with live prey items. If you didn't want a lot of live prey items, I would say go with the crested.
I'm tempted to get more than one, but I also want to stick to a smaller enclosure as I want to make sure I can handle it on my own if I need to.
As a general rule, most reptiles are very happy alone. So, unless, you want to breed, no worries on keeping one. Plus, it will be much easier for you to handle on your own. Like you already said.
My son has been bugging me for a pet, but he's twelve and I don't know if he'll follow through on care.
Do you know which species he is most interested in? Can he meet any of the species you and Elena mention in person? That might help the two of you decide.
I do have a suppressed immune system sometimes. I've been thinking about how this effects the choice in pet. I don't want to give them up just after getting them.
Have you spoken to a medical professional before getting a pet?
I have given it some thought and I think proper hand washing when handling or dealing with enclosure and wearing gloves when cleaning the cage should address those issues.
I would agree. But, I am NOT a medical professional of any kind.
Life comes with some risk and I'd rather take some protected risk than be too careful and feel dead inside. If you know what I mean.
Yes I do. PM me for further details.
Other things I've been looking into are a bioactive habitat and live plants. Any advice or recommendations on best practices, types of plants, a humidifier etc. Is most welcome.
I could send you some Youtube links, if, you want.
You are very welcome. But, Elena was VERY helpful!