Griz said:You're right Dan however any speculation on our parts is due solely to Ed's inability to answer straight forward questions. He is dancing around the issue, refuses to state what actually took place, puts all of the blame on the buyer so some reasonable common sense speculation is probably in order.
We are in agreement, and it's a big problem that he is failing to recognize. You can't undoe the misdeed by sending an extra gecko. The second gecko is meant to sweeten the deal and making it look like a fair transaction. Is there an elegant way out of this one? I don't think so, not at this point. Had he immediately acknowledged the mistake (anyone can make one) and sent the right female everyone would have been left with the question if it was an "accident" or intentional. But when you insist it's is the right animal when it clearly is not...well, you get the picture. Did he sell the female, did it die or is he planning to keeping for himself? I don't know and I don't care. The fact is that the customer did not receive what she paid for.
Griz said:I agree with Sammy. I don't believe Ed has her anymore otherwise the solution here would have been simple. Instead, since Ed knows he cannot produce what he promised, since it's left his premises, he is casting blame elsewhere. It's his M.O. It's his character and he's obviously lacking. A true scumbag in the industry.
Maybe so, but unless someone comes forward with a picture of the gecko in his/her posession we won't know the truth. As far as I'm concerned the gecko never reached it's intended destination. Does it cast a doubt on Ed's reputation, of course.
I say give her the money back for the female, or work something out between yourselves until the customer is happy (since it was your mistake, not hers). It's not fair to put the gecko through the stress of shipping it again just because you made a mistake (or were caught if it wasn't). Any knowledgeable crested enthusiast would know that the females were completely different. Ed is either guilty of being extremely unobservant, or being completely untrustworthy. Neither one is desirable, but he can improve his circumstances by doing the honorable thing and doing his best to remedy the situation.
Above is part of crested lady's post. She summarizes the current situation objectively without getting hung-up in the seller's past history. Excellent, detached and unbiased. She even has time to propose a solution that can work for both parties involved should Ed realize he made a BIG mistake.
Best!
Dan G.